i recently found out that before my boyfriend and i dated, he used to have 3sums with his cousin(troy his best friend) and his cousins girlfriend on a regular basis. Troy isnt dating that girl anymore but im kinda freaked out. my boyfriend also cheated on me with his ex.. and is always talking about sex. I know he is a sweet guy but he kinda freaks me out. Im not gonna leave him no matter what, even if he can be weird sometimes. how can i make him less of a freak?
2007-03-27 07:43:00 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he cheated on me a month after we were dating and he was drunk. i trust he wont do it again. i had him on the ground crying telling me he loved me and he said he doesnt deserve me. He promised he wont mess up anymore. I understand him. We have a unique connection. So im not leaving him. and he isnt a jackass all the time. He is mostly sweet. He keeps it hidden.
2007-03-27 07:51:24 · update #1
You can leave him! He's not going to change. He's going to be a freak forever. You have a choice. You can leave him now, or you can leave him after you discover him in bed with his MALE cousin and some other girl. Good grief child! Please tell me you're smarter than that!
2007-03-27 07:46:52 · answer #1 · answered by Aiden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if he freaks you out to begin with, and you've known that all the time...then I don't really think there's much you can do because he has always been like that. Even you are saying that no matter what you won't leave him...so why try to change him? If you are ok with the way he acts and how he is....just let it be, don't fix what's not broken!
2007-03-27 07:48:13 · answer #2 · answered by M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he is a man and and men do think about sex 24/7 and if he has already cheated on you before he will again but you wont leave him so I guess your doing that to yourself then. You cant change anybody!!! Try talking to him about it and see what happens but I dont think there is much u can do.
2007-03-27 07:51:20 · answer #3 · answered by Amy D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he cheated on you and you're not thinking about leave him? If he freaks you out, there's probably a good chance that he isn't the right guy for you. Never assume that you'll be capable of making them change. It rarely happens
2007-03-27 07:48:21 · answer #4 · answered by Tanya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You change him, never!
He sounds like a loser by cheating on you, not to sure why you think you deserve to be treated with no respect or love...Your question should be Why am I so insecure that I stay with this freak!?
2007-03-27 07:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Word of advice to ALL women changing your man will not make things better. If your boyfriend is like this then maybe you need to be with someone who's got what you're looking for and doesnt involve himself in questionable lifestyles.
2007-03-27 07:47:30 · answer #6 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So do you like it or not? It is a part of him, do you not want him to love everything about you? Perhaps you might be willing to change for him, but has he suggested in any minute manner that he's willing to change for you?
If yes, then that might be something the two of you might want to discuss.
If no, then as the other readers suggest "MOVE ON TO GREENER PASTURES!" Don't settle girl!
2007-03-27 07:52:11 · answer #7 · answered by banandy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can not change him nor can you make him not cheat. The only thing you can do is either stay and take him for what he is or GET OUT.
2007-03-27 07:47:56 · answer #8 · answered by xyz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You cant, give it up, take him like he is, or move on. Hes not a freak, most guys would love to have crazy sexual experiences.
2007-03-27 07:47:46 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Get the hell out and find the guy you could really be extremely happy with
or
2. be a part of INCEST and GROUP SEX with your bf's penis sloshing around in other girl's va-jj's...?
2007-03-27 07:48:34 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋