My husband and I are having problems. I have two teenagers that are great with no problems. My husband on the other hand dislikes them even though they do nothing to him and respect him. He is negative about everything, i.e.. my friends, people, women, and feels like everyone is against him. He befriends my children and then makes up a story that they did that is incorrect. He thinks I talk about him behind his back and am out to just get the best of him. I just don't know what to do anymore. Sometimes he is okay and others everything and everyone is wrong. He finds something wrong in every conversation. Please, if any one has any experience or information please let me know.
2007-03-27 07:40:37 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Paranoia with Delusions of Grandure... either that, or he's guilty of chronic long term marajuana use, and maybe some other drug/s as well. Get it checked out!
2007-03-27 07:52:51 · answer #1 · answered by lisalikes70scheese 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well it sounds like you are having some problems in your family. Sorry to hear that. It is never easy. It sounds like he is trying to hide from something inside himself by pointing out everything that is wrong with everyone and by being so negative. There is definitely a underlying cause which is making him act this way. You need to worry about yourself and your 2 children at this point. It does not mean you stop caring about your husband, it just means you need to make sure you don't get brought down by his negative and destructing attitude/behavior. If you feel the problem can't be solved then you will need to take further action and be strong about it. You need to look at yourself in the mirror and evaluate whats important to you and make sure you are not slipping away from your Morales and your needs. Sometimes as parents we think are kids are perfect with no problems but we are wrong. Being involved in your children's life especially as a mother, is the most important thing you could do. Listen to me, worry about you and your kids. Your husband seems to be very insecure and lost at this point and you won't be able to change or help him. Search your heart and listen to what it tells you and then take courage and strength to put your thoughts into action.
2007-03-27 07:57:10 · answer #2 · answered by Forbidden1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dealt with people like this before the short answer is he has a mental condition get him diagnosed. He sounds like he is paranoid he definately needs to see a psychiatrist.
2007-03-27 07:55:41 · answer #3 · answered by Lou 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-02 21:55:51 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like he is very insecure with his surroundings and has a fear of ppl. most ppl who have this are called ppl hater because they think the world is against them, a good therapist can help him but then again getting him there is a problem because he will think she is out to get him
2007-03-27 07:45:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he needs a hug and tell him to losen up. he doesnt need to worry abt social approval from other people. This type of personality are good people but they need social approval from eveybody that he is good and what he does is good enough with kids/family/work etc.
2007-03-27 07:45:54 · answer #6 · answered by Mr.PGB 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is a depressive person because nothing is good with him and has negative reactions. He needs therapy before he brings total failure to you and your marriage.
2007-03-27 07:45:38 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sound like he is suffering from Paranoia and would benefit from professional diagnosis and treatment.
2007-03-27 07:44:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He doesn't love/like himself...he did something he can't forgive himself for......he needs professional help..a therapist
2007-03-27 07:45:33 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To answer your subject line, it means that person is paranoid.
2007-03-27 07:43:16 · answer #10 · answered by . 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋