well the summer before i started 7th grade i moved to schaumburg, IL from Wisconsin. then in the middle of my 8th grade year (november 2006) i moved to Elgin, IL. I miss my small town with all my heart. i mean come on i lived there for 7 years. Now were probly moving again because my mom is having a baby that is due on May, 24 and my stepdad lost his job last monday. So we might have to have a foreclose our new house and find a cheaper one so we can take care of Amelia(that's the babys name). But anyways. its been hard for me to make friends because i am so afraid to become to close.. because i know i am moving soon. so since i shut myself out, people ignore me. and now im the target of bullying. please help me. sorry this is so long..
2007-03-27 07:12:07 · 4 answers · asked by Erin = ] 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Erin I know all this moving has been very hard on you.It's hard to adjust to new places and new friends but that's what you have to try and do.
Don't let anyone bully you.Have you spoken to your parents and your school about this?You have to get this resolved.
Don't be afraid of making friends even if they are friends for only a short while.The more friends the better and the more fun you'll have.You can always stay in touch with them by email or letters and visits.
Even though you may have to move again it may be close by and your friends will be there for you.Don't shut yourself out anymore and explain to the girls at school how you were feeling and it will work out for you.You have to give them time but they will come around.They most likely thought you were snubbing them.
Talk to your parents and talk to the school counsellor and they will help you.
And just think........you'll soon have baby Amelia to love and cherish and that is truly a blessing from God.
Good Luck and hang in there.
2007-03-27 07:38:16 · answer #1 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just try anyways hun! Meeting new people is fun, and especially if they are cool...so what if you dont form a long lasting relationship? Or, so what if you DO form a good friendship and you end up moving again and have to leave? Yea it will be sad, but a lot of things will be sad in life. Just take it one day at a time and who knows, the next person you become friends with in ANY city you are in could be your new best friend or maybe even the guy of your dreams, ya know!? So just have fun and dont be afraid to open up!
2007-03-27 14:18:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
that happened to me 50 years ago and i have never stopped being sad. Get your MOM to find you a stable family in the town you grew up in and let you board there for the school year. not at all fair to you,
2007-03-27 14:19:30 · answer #3 · answered by Nora 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just be your self and if you are truly your self someone will come and want to be your friend. So be your self and talk to someopne who seems nice and see you might become good friends!
2007-03-27 14:38:56 · answer #4 · answered by Beth D 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋