I have been seeing this man for the past 6 yrs...yes 6! You think u know a person. We are very very close, he finishes my sentences, completes me. You may recall a question i posted about which cell phone to get. Well yesterday, when we went to get it, i found out that we( we have fam. plan) have 3 accounts instead of two. There's nobody so close to him that he should open up second account this january for them. He claims it's for his friend...yah right..what does he think i am! I was infuriated. I logged into cingular.com and saw all these calls he was making to this person...45-50-115minutes after 1AM!! Now, im convinced it's for another woman. Right after we dropped me off from cingular store, i called the #, it went straight to voicemail. I listened to the message he put on the phone "don't dare pick up if anyone else calls you, unless u see my no."!!! Now what does that tell you! i cancelled that account. How can i get back at him in a way he will never forget!!!
2007-03-27 06:49:11 · 21 answers · asked by lilly_of_the_valley 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
that sounds terrible, i think you should talk to him about what you found out, dont plot revenge! karma will get him gurl, dont worry about that, but if you really want to get back at him in a way that you will never forgot, get yourself a Hot hot hot guy and make sure he knows youre with him!
2007-03-27 06:54:13 · answer #1 · answered by puppyluv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The guy might have been that man but it's hard to tell how long his cheating has been going on. 6 years is a long time. Maybe he got bored. Maybe he's not happy. Either way it was wrong for him to cheat. He should have been upfront and honest that he wasn't happy. A lot of men want their cake and eat it too so they'll stay in a relationship and still have their fun on the side. He's a jerk. Kick him to the curb and move on. Getting back at him might just cause more pain for you in the long run. Don't do anything you will regret or that could get you into trouble. Sometimes it's best to just cut your losses and move on.
2007-03-27 14:07:59 · answer #2 · answered by wickedsoxf4n 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
wow your man sounds just like mine dont you love it how you dont even see it coming especially if your with them all the time so you dont think they even have time for another relationship? tell him hes a prick and get rid or him dont stay with him trust me its not worth it i stayed with my fiance after i found out he cheated on me and it was the worst mistake ive ever made and im still with him because he always has excuses and reasons for the things he does and hes in the marines you would think he would have some sort of sense hah. but anyways ya hes not worth it get rid of him delete his number from your phone and never talk to him again even those its been six years it doesnt matter if i had the chance i would go back and do the same thing women seem to think that they can make men change or whatever or beleive them when they say its the last time but trust me they wont ever change and they arent worth it. wow i should take my own advice huh haha.
2007-03-27 14:03:49 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl kick him to the curb and move on. You have been with him for 6 years and it's a shame you found out the way you did!!! I know it's hard but you have to keep you grounds so that he knows you aint just some girl that will put up with his sh@#%it. I am sure there is a man out there for you don't worry the right one will come along wait and see! Keep your head up!!
2007-03-27 13:54:43 · answer #4 · answered by Shorty06 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
IF YOU WANT TO GET BACK AT HIM JUST LEAVE HIM ALONE COMPLETELY. YOU HAVE SO MUCH HISTORY TOGETHER, AND ITS A SHAME THAT IT ENDED OUT BEING THIS WAY, BUT YOU ARE BETTER OFF NOT PLAYING CHILDISH GAMES. TAKE THE HIGHER ROAD (WHICH IS DIFFICULT DURING TIMES LIKE THIS ONE) BUT IS BETTER . HAVE YOU EVER HEARD OF THE SAYING "LESS IS MORE". WELL IF YOU TELL HIM WHAT YOU DISCOVERED, AND LEAVE HIM ALONE COMPLETELY, YOU ARE MAKING A STATEMENT THAT YOU CARE ABOUT YOURSELF WAY TOO MUCH TO ALLOW SOMETHING LIKE THIS HAPPEN AND NOT DO ANYTHING ABOUT IT. YOU WILL NOT SETTLE AFTER YOU'VE PUT SO MUCH TIME INTO THE RELATIONSHIP, AND THE OTHER LADY CAN HAVE HIS PLAYING BEHIND CAUSE YOU CAN FIND BETTER!!!!
2007-03-27 14:11:47 · answer #5 · answered by Whonosbest 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Break up with him and go live a happy life- why waste another 6 years with this guy playing silly cell phone games.
2007-03-27 13:55:17 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you know what the majority of people are going to say...getting back at someone isn't the answer nor will it make you feel better. Just deal with it the best way you can and move on. I feel for you girl
2007-03-27 13:58:04 · answer #7 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow!!! men i tell u!!! well i dont know what to say cuz i been in that same situation my man was calling this hoochie and i just happened to find out one day because i looked at the bill and there were like 300 text messages to this number and long talks to that number then i called it and found out he was talking to some gurl behind my back, i wanted to kill his *** he said she was nothing they just were friends in high school and catching up on old times but if she was nothing to him why the hell would he text her so much, it was about 35.00 extra on the bill just from talking to her and she was "nothing" to him i check the bill for now til i can re-gain the trust and he knows the deal if i see him talking to her more than is neccesarry hes outta here!!! i wont put up with that **** cuz i know he wouldnt!!! he would flip if he would find me talking to another guy!!! FAIR IS FAIR!!!
2007-03-27 13:57:53 · answer #8 · answered by Priscilla R 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's so not worth it..why get back at a man when you can say straight up to the little A**hole " You are a horrible person, i can do much better off without you Getoutta my house"
2007-03-27 13:56:55 · answer #9 · answered by Ashy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are understandably upset about this. However getting back is not the answer. Many are not who they appear. Be thankful you found out now and go on with your life. The way to "get back" is to "get forward." Go be the best and take your lesson with you.
2007-03-27 14:06:47 · answer #10 · answered by Healthy Lifestyle Geek 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋