my friend says i am living in a dream world.as most people probably know i fancy my friends brother hes 29,i lied about my age.i am 15.i've liked him sincei was 9.he took time to talk to me and play with us when we were younger.and my feelings have grown for him.its worked for cat zeta jones,so it could work for me right?
how can i get him to notice me?and maybe take me out on a date?
2007-03-27 06:46:09 · 22 answers · asked by lily_carmel_evans 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i hate school,but never planned on leaving it.and i can turn 16 in a year i wont always be 15.and taking someone on a date...since when could anyone get arrested for that?we live in the UK.so our laws are different and more sensible.
2007-03-27 06:50:38 · update #1
oh 'sweetie' i have more idea then you do.face facts 15 does not mean naive stupid kids anymore.we grow up.and are smarter then those were 40 years ago.i know right from wrong.i know not take drugs,or drink heavily and smoke.
2007-03-27 06:52:05 · update #2
i dont know where you lot live,but not every man wants sex.hes respectable.i KNOW him.if he wanted sex he would already be with someone by now.
2007-03-27 06:53:45 · update #3
i am perfecrly aware of how old zeta jones is thank you.
2007-03-27 06:54:22 · update #4
conner everyone knows you fancy dream.even marie knows.
2007-03-27 12:48:56 · update #5
listen to dream.he knows what hes saying.
2007-03-27 12:32:34 · answer #1 · answered by conner_conner11 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's got any sense, which I hope he has, he won't take you anywhere. This is a crush. You must understand that? I know that feelings at your age are very, very strong, and I'm not saying that they aren't real. They are very real. But if he has a sexual relationship with you, which a 29 year old is GOING to want, he will be breaking the law. Don't ask him to do that.
If he's that important to you, wait a few, years, and he will still be around.
Catherine Zeta Jones was an adult.
It IS illegal in the Uk until you are 16.
2007-03-27 13:51:17 · answer #2 · answered by Dogsbody 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok when catherine zeta jones did this she was alot older. When he was 15 you were 1. Honestly it wouldn't be any type of relationship that would last. Your gonna change in your attitudes as you grow up more. He's done with that you may not like him later on. All this is going to be is sex, nothing more. Have your crush but go for some one your own age. If you still like him when your 29 then i say see what happens.
2007-03-27 13:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by Missy 75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ms. Zeta-Jones did not meet Michael Douglas when she was 15! She was like 30! She was a woman, YOU are not a woman. You need to let this go, it's only gonna bring you and your family heartache. Any man that age, that would date a 15 year old, is sick. I understand you're feelings for him are strong, but face it, you 2 have nothing in common.
2007-03-27 13:53:07 · answer #4 · answered by who-wants-to-know 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
let's be real......This guy is probably into women with careers,cars, and money. He is proably looking for a wife.Does he have any kids? Are you sure that you are ready for that. Just think about it when you are 30 he will be 45 and I doubt if you would want wrinkle dick. So I say be his friend and when you get about 20 if you still like him give it a shot but now it will be too hard to keep up with whatever age you told him you were.
2007-03-27 13:56:19 · answer #5 · answered by spoken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't want to patronize you, but you've got to think objectively about it.....why would a 29 year old man want a 15 year old girl? Take yourself out of the situation, just a random irl and a random guy. it doesn't sound like a good idea to me, honey.
plus, imagine if you did get together, you would have to hide your relationship from everyone, because technicaly it's illegal for him to be in a relationship with you (if you know what i mean) because your under 16.
i think he sounds like a nice guy, but just genuinely nice. i don't think he's looking for anything from you, just to be nice to his sister's mate. maybe he spent so much time with you when you were little cause of his sister, maybe cause theyve got a close relationship.
My advice would be to stay friends with him and maybe try to find someone who isn't that much older than you
Good Luck
2007-03-27 15:49:51 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
bull your 15 u think you have grown up, an maybe he just doesnt think of you in that way for goodness sake he is 29 an if any thing happend then what he would have a reputation as a pedo u shouldnt even be thinking of sex at your age cause believe me that complicates things
2007-03-27 14:02:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are 15.........he is 29.Forget it.
I'm sure he has no feelings for you whatsoever.He would have absolutely nothing in common with you.To him you're a baby still and I'm sure he won't rock the cradle.
Act like a 15 yr. old and find someone your own age.
Your friend is right,you 're living in a dream world.He won't notice you and take you on a date....never.
2007-03-27 13:57:48 · answer #8 · answered by sonnyboy 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If he is a smart man he will not show interest in you. Your parents could charge him so fast as you are a minor. Wait till you get a little older to chase this man, you dont want to be making a foolish mistake. Please sweetie, trust me, I know you have no idea right now.
2007-03-27 13:50:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
no.the age gap is just too big.you will end up hurt.and maybe 'labeled'.he will get into trouble.even he does not sleep with you.people will talk about you both.he may lose his day job.would you want that?people would not want a 'pervert' saving their children.if you do like him then dont try anything.if you are this girls friend then leave her brother alone.how do you think she will feel if people talked about her brother and her friend?
2007-03-27 14:36:39 · answer #10 · answered by why_did_he_leave_me2 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all you need to get over this crush..because you are 15 years old and he's 29. What would a 29 year old do with a 15 year old?? Unless he is perverted and doesn't care. Please get over it!!
2007-03-27 13:50:45 · answer #11 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋