Yesterday i asked my friend out to the movies, she said yes. Then i told her that it will happen in May when Spider-Man 3 comes out, if that is fine with you. She said ok i will bring my cousin Jaycee. Then i said ok i am looking forward to it. She said ok, i will your mom and ask her where is the best place to meet, what time to meet for the movie, what are the times that the movie starts, and that i will buy the tickets and the popcorn with the drinks.
Question: If a guy has a crush on a girl, can the girl know how the guy feels about her? -or- Does the guy have to express his personal feelings toward her? Cause i am always thinking about my friend however, i want to be honest with her by telling her that i love her and that i have been thinking about her. How can i tell her about my personal feelings toward her WITHOUT TRYING TO CREEP HER OUT? How can i try to go out with her more often?
2007-03-27 06:44:33 · 8 answers · asked by Erik W 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
It seems to me like she's interested in spending time with you. So you should. It might be a little difficult for her to accept if you come right out and tell her that you love her, so try easing into it. Talk to her more, spend some more time with her, and see if she seems to feel the same way before laying your heart out like that. She may want to just be friends with you, and if you scare her, you might lose a good friend.
2007-03-27 06:59:50 · answer #1 · answered by kalsmom 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well...not sure how old you both are...but you both sound a little young for real dating....otherwise you would be able to pick her up, and she wouldn't need to bring a cousin with her.
So I think you are a little soon to be so up front about how you feel....she will know you like her, just because you want to spend time with her....but why did you plan it for so much time later.....why not the following weekend...is the movie that important?
So if you really want to spend time with this girl, ask her again for a time closer....like go out for a coke and a hamburger....or on a picnic, or something....the point is to spend time with her, right?
I wouldn't share those personal feelings this soon, when you aren't even spending much time together. Wait until you know she feels the same way about you....it take time....and mutual communication. You have taken a good first step!
The other advice is to think about what you can do for her...what does she like to do?
2007-04-03 17:24:10 · answer #2 · answered by samantha 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As in every lesson you will learn in life. You will not know until you try. Weigh the pros and cons figure out if it is worth it to tell her and take the risk. Life is always a risk. You never do anything wrong you just have life lessons (and you learn from them). Wish you the best.
2007-04-03 13:05:53 · answer #3 · answered by Silver Lady 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, she knows you like her and she must like you back. Just continue to act like you are now. Be friendly and relax because you have a long time to be friends before either of you is ready for a serious relationship. Don't tell her that you love her for at least a year. She will definitely be creeped out if you go too fast -- slow down.
2007-04-03 19:58:46 · answer #4 · answered by kbama 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your terrific buddy is being 2-confronted to you, that's all approximately loyalty. Your terrific buddy has each and every desirable to be friends with your ex-terrific buddy, yet whilst she claims to dislike her, and then talks and hangs out along with her, some thing purely isn't desirable. tell your terrific buddy to assist you recognize the reality, and be arranged for any answer. even nonetheless she's your terrific buddy, strikes communicate louder than words, and you will desire to sense look after in mushy on your relationships with your friends. Jealousy and complication are actually not aspects of a healthful dating. stable success!
2016-11-23 19:33:29 · answer #5 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not a mind reader, or if she is sweet! but you just need to tell her how u feel maybe she feels the same and even if she doesnt , if u 2 r real good friends it should pass, i mean dont get me wrong it will b wierd for awhile,but trust me its worth the chance.........................At least u wont have to wonder "What If" for the rest of ur life
2007-04-01 11:14:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying to predict every move you make, let things just happen, don't dwell on the what ifs, just be yourself and your heart will tell you when and what to say (most of the time), that is a big part of growing up.
2007-04-03 22:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by Bethy4 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes or she get taking by another man
2007-03-27 08:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋