When I'm sweet he runs away, when I'm a ***** he comes running. He's almost 35 and this seems like dumb behavior.
I fell head over heels for a guy I showed him my sweet side, was vulnerable and gave him my heart.
He did a 180 and became cold & distant.
I was heartbroken for a while but finally got my confidence up and now don't have feelings for him (or if I do Im too hurt too EVER trust him again)
He lives almost 2 hours away so our only contact still is online.
I act cool, disinterested and busy.
Now he acts all interested in me again.
Why do men like B1tches so much ?
2007-03-27 06:14:07 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
My heart goes out to you...
I do not like when women act like "B1tches" to be honest. I love when my GF is sweet to me or shows that she cares for me, that is the way things should be! Although I know exactly what you're talking about, and have been in your shoes except that I am the Man saying your words...Yet I know why some Men do this, and yes, it works (otherwise they wouldn't do it). It's the thrill of the chase, they think to themselves that "She doesn't want me anymore...I bet I can win her back"...This is why he comes running back. After he sees your sweet side again, and knows that you're attracted to him again, he's done with the chase...
2007-03-27 06:25:15 · answer #1 · answered by jordancarrick 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ususally when a guy acts like that he doesn't really want a real relationship something less confining. So the more cool and distant you act he feels its safe to just hang. There are guys out there who like the drama, the girls who don't seem to need them so they try even harder to be needed. And some times if you start showing them you need them thats when they run. This isn't the type of guy you want if you want a real relationship. This guy will do the exact same thing again if you try to be real with him.
2007-03-27 13:20:41 · answer #2 · answered by Missy 75 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I cant stand a girl thats a *****. I love girls that are absolutley sweet....they show they care and they arent stuck up. Sounds like you just havent found a guy yet that likes you for who you are. Dont trty to act certain ways just be yourself. Eventually you will find the guy that likes the sweet side of you : ) good luck
2007-03-27 13:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Josh 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont think that its that he likes bitches, I think that its the fact that he likes you liking him.
When you show your sweet side and show interest in him, he knows that he has you in his grip and goes about life like nothing is happening. When you show your "bitchy" and disinterested side, he feels like he needs to work harder and show interest in you to get you liking him again.
Its pretty pathetic behavior, really. And just the fact that hes almost 35 doesnt really change anything... some men just never grow up.
2007-03-27 13:25:17 · answer #4 · answered by marissa 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Men like challenges, men like to think that if your being a ***** then they can work really hard to make you love them again, i have recently found out that this is not the case at all. My ex broke up with me, she was acting kind of b1tchy to me, then REALLY b1tchy to me, but at first when i said she didnt have to pay me back for the ring and she could keep it, she said that maybe one day she could use it again for us. Now she want's nothing to do with me because i'm supposedly a creep trying to stalk her, well yesterday i couldn't take the b1tchyness anymore, so i cut all ties with her. I dont know men just like a challenge, its in our blood. its what drive's us to do more, and do better.
2007-03-27 13:19:50 · answer #5 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
For the same reason some women like guys that treat them badly. It's low self-esteem. It's the old "I would never belong to any club that would have me as a member" syndrome. If you like him, there must be something wrong with you (in his mind.) When you seem like you don't like him, you're more appealing. It's sad, but true. I used to be that way myself, but finally got enough self respect to be able to like a guy who likes me.
2007-03-27 13:18:28 · answer #6 · answered by Schleppy 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
We don't... you just have the wrong guy.. The type guy that likes it are the guys that will always be fighting and divorcing one girl after another all their life. Doesn't sound like thats an interesting or attractive life to me.. does it you??
2007-03-27 13:18:49 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The world will never know.
Not all men like that kind of women.
I guess some like "take charge" kind of women
some like "sweet adorable" women.
I have no clue.
Different kinds of men and different kinds of women.
2007-03-27 13:18:51 · answer #8 · answered by YoshiGal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
men do not like bitches. It is just that men ( i am one of them) are *** 0, dumb, etc. You just need to find a guy that will treat you with respect.
2007-03-27 13:19:13 · answer #9 · answered by ken401lam 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems like he's playing a dangerous game to me. Watch your back.
2007-03-27 13:20:01 · answer #10 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋