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Question

i am in a desperate need of changing my life.....i make a promise everyday but its gone the very day itself....i am alwayz in the mood of lokin gud and i have in turn let go my studeis....how can i change my life help plzzzzzzzzz

Answer 1

Positive
Mental
Attitude

just change the thinking then change the actions start small short tearm goals baby steps
just start to think positive

Answer 2

Are you breaking your promises? If you seriously want to change then do it. It is really hard to stick to it at first but as you get used to being that way it will become alot easier. I hate to sound like a cliche but the real world will not care at all about how good you look, you need to study and be able to do something with your self, if your in high school stay study and graduate, find something you enjoy and go for it there are all kinds of options once you have a diploma, also have faith in your self and start sticking to your promises. You will be able to do it,when your truly ready.

Answer 3

Ask a friend to slap you upside the head and give you some tough love as a wake-up call. You say you want to change, but you need to commit to that change first. You keep giving in to the fun and easy path, doing whatever looks or feels good... and your studies have slipped so far that you can't even write an intelligble post!

Get a fresh piece of paper and write your goals down, using declarative "I will" statements.
-I will stop smoking.
-I will tear up my credit cards, so I can't spend all my money on designer clothes.
-I will spend one hour a day reading a book.
-I will cancel all my magazine subscriptions, effective today.
-I will only watch the news and the Discovery Channel.
-I will graduate.
-I will stop blaming others for the way I am.
-I will take responsibility for my own life, and save myself.
-I will ask for help when I need it.

Answer 4

Sounds like you need to have something to look forward to in life, set a goal or something, one you have to work for. Look at how wonderful the world really is, and all the beautiful things there is to enjoy. You could move, or find new hobbies, new friends to hang out with, etc. Read some great, inspiring books, and read self-help books on how to change your life for the better. There are just so many things. But you have to WANT to change, not just SAY you want to change.

Answer 5

Changing your life should come from within yourself. If you don't want to you will never be able to do it.

Put a goal in front of your eyes and think about the ways (straight ones) that will make you reach it.

You don't have to look bad in order to do better at school, but try to make your grades look as good as you look.

Answer 6

Make goals. Make a plan. Make a schedule. Let people know your schedule and goals so you don't work hard on setting stuff you want to do and never do them.

Studies are one of the things that make you look good.
Keep a positive attitude.
Don't give up.

Answer 7

If you want to look good set aside an hour in the morning and at niight and do cleansers and facials and lite make up. Then set aside the hours needed for school..not that hard to figure out....if it is to rid negative people and things out of you life>??? Just walk out..and don't explain yourself or look back..move on

Answer 8

You have to believe in you. The first step is realizing that you have this problem and then you have to execute trying to make things better. Set yourself goals and a time frame to complete time by but set realistic goals. Good luck!

Answer 9

to get back in focus starts within yourself. but if you need some external help go to your local inner city and take a look at the poverty . if you want to live like that keep on how ya going and you dreams will come true