we were doing fine...then he totally stopped texting/calling me. i'm completely lost. he said he have commitment phobia. we broke up on good terms and i can tell he's happier than before. i'm devastated. but i acted nonchalant in front of friends, like the break up was no big deal. but its really breaking me up inside..i want him back. i don't know what to do. does he really like me? how could he have let me go so easily? should i get him back? he seems relieved that i initated the break-up. i'm 18. he's 22.
2007-03-27 06:06:30 · 6 answers · asked by s89 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you should tell him how you feel, EXACTLY how you feel, and if you think he isnt taking you seriously then just dont pay attention to him,act as if he doesnt exist and live your life,he will notice you moved on and that youre having fun, he is gonna end up calling you back, trust me its happened with MANY of my ex's
2007-03-27 06:12:11 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its in your best interest to let him go....Why would you want to be with someone who doesn't want to be with you? I think he is using excuses like having committment issues just to want out of the relationship. You should be with someone who knows what he wants and who's not afraid of taking chances even if it means having something great at the end. You are allowing yourself to feel the way you do and honestly until you confront yourself with your own emotions its when you will begin to heal and move forward. If a person if willing to let go of someone or something great, then the other person is better off. I wouldn't want to be with someone who didn't fight for me or for "us".....
2007-03-27 15:41:52 · answer #2 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your the one who initiated the break up, then it might have hurt him a little, so it may have made it easier for him to get over you. Sorry. Dont get your hopes up of getting him back.
2007-03-27 13:12:33 · answer #3 · answered by Danny S 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on his history, does he do this all the time, the committment phobia? get over him or give him space but still be "friends" and lure him back...that is after you have given him space...a man is to find his wife, not be persued by her.
2007-03-27 13:11:03 · answer #4 · answered by sweetie pie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might have moved on but i mean im 18 my boyfriend is 22 and we broke up but i mean he might wont u back you just goy to give him time or he might b wait ing on you to *** 4 him
2007-03-27 13:11:54 · answer #5 · answered by tasashamascott 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't try and win him back, he's done with you, i just did this with my ex. just move on hun, its o.k. there are plenty of others
2007-03-27 13:10:04 · answer #6 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋