I appreciate all the comments I got back, thank you!! I met the other guy who is now a friend out here in kansas and have been hanging out with him and we enjoy eachothers company. He has told me how interested he is in me and he knows I have a boyfrined and we have talked about things. I am just confused because well I am very interested in him as well but yet I mean I do love and care for my boyfriend, I really do need to get out of his house and find a place of my own and think things through before making any decisions. I just hope my boyfriend can understand, I just dont know how to tell him I need time to clear my head and think things through. I am not the type that cheats or lies. It's difficult to tell someone that you are confused about things and just need a break and some time to soul search and really just sit down and have a talk with yourself about things and decide what is right. Im not looking to choose one guy or the other I just need time to figure things out.
2007-03-27 06:05:27 · 3 answers · asked by pixie_gurl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
surprisingly you sound like you are on the right track. The most important choices you make will be what is the right thing to do. don't bother to listen to anyone who insists that they have the moral answer. what is right is a very personal choice and cannot be confined by the judgments of others.
somebody once told me you may not always know if it's right, but you do know if it's wrong. that simple saying is probably the best guide I've ever had . so I'll leave you with that . Good luck
Joe
2007-03-27 06:19:35 · answer #1 · answered by krimlen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I will say this much. Regardless of you telling the "other guy" about your bf, if you keep spending time with him, he's not going to ask if he can put the moves on, he's just going to try, because sooner or later it becomes obvious that there's nothing to lose. Moreover, I'm not sure I'd tell your bf about any of it. If you haven't cheated, stop putting yourself in a position where you might and you'll have nothing to possibly regret or own up to later. Get your own place, tell your bf you just need a little independence, and tell the "OG" that you think you want to marry your bf (and see what he says, does), even if that's a stretch or flat out lie.
2007-03-27 13:15:24 · answer #2 · answered by randyken 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is a hard situation i was just in one similar to that and after i left and spent some time on my own i realized that i really love my boyfriend. I think you will be doing the right the by taking some time to figure things out or you can never really move forward.
2007-03-27 13:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by only4me 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋