She has been giving me subtle signs that she is lonely and likes my attention. I know she just wants to use me until her man comes back in October. Should I go for it?
2007-03-27 05:46:51 · 40 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YES.....IRAQ is a death sentence from Bush so pound away hes not coming back
2007-03-27 05:53:34 · answer #1 · answered by sweetinjection 1 · 0⤊ 4⤋
If she is asking for attention remind her to be faithful and be her friend. Stay totally away from any situations that may get a little to friendly. i.e. Movie alone in the dark..... If you know her husband that is great ask how he is doing, ask for his address and write him a letter let him know that his wife is feeling really alone and you want to support her but not be intimate. He may hate you but he may thank you for bringing the fact that she is feeling lonely to his attention.
The best thing you can do for her is be her friend. Take her out to socialize with other people, Give her a break and mow the lawn,take out the trash, or fix that thing that has been broken for who knows how long (the stuff that normaly the husband would do) Let her cry on your shoulder(but again don't get too touchy feely) Listen to her when she wants to ***** or vent. That way you can still help her out without getting the crap kicked out of you when her husband gets home and putting her in a worse situation.
2007-03-27 06:01:24 · answer #2 · answered by Mandi G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. are you a woman asking this Que whos husband is in Iraq ?? or you are really a man who cant decide !
from what i see its not worth it. you need to ask yourself that do you want to be part of something that is really wrong ? She is cheating on her husband and knowing that if yu wanna be part of that then its only going to create some sirious problems. If both of yuo hook up and get attached with each other than its hard to walk away and stop dating when her husband comes back .
rather just not go that way . be friends no sleeping together
2007-03-27 05:52:19 · answer #3 · answered by Dave 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
No..
Thats cheating,
My uncle is in Irac. He cheated on his wife while he was there, and she found out. She ended up taking him to court, getting a divorce, and he ended up with nothing. Not a lot of money, and he had to live back with his parents.
If you really like the girl, tell her if she feels that way, get a divorce first, then go out with you. Don't do anything with her while she still has a husband, because if you do, shes going to be screwed when he comes back. Its obviously not a good relationship between them if shes THAT desprate and needs to cheat until he comes back. They should get a divorce if shes willing to cheat. I understand shes lonely, but suggest that you two are just friends, until, if they do, get a divorce.
2007-03-27 05:52:32 · answer #4 · answered by stephanie 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Noo. Just cuz she doesn't care and wants to be disrespectful, does not mean u have to go the same way. She should have more respect, in her man going out there to risk his life for our country.
Put your self in that mans shoes. If u had a wife, and went to fight in Iraq, would u wanna come home to a faithful wife? or a wife who was sleeping with another man?
2007-03-27 05:53:11 · answer #5 · answered by hot_rican_4_ju 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
humm... im in iraq.. and suppose to come back in october.. humm.. but im not married.. haha but no.. come on.. we are defending the country and you want to bone our wifes.. whats wrong with you.. she wants attention im sure.. cause she hasnt gotten any booty for like what 6 months.. i mean.. thats horrible.. you should comfert her in her time in need.. cause when he gets back she will feel horrible seeing him agin.. and realizing how much she loves him and cant believe she did what she did.. and could ruin a great thing.. what a horrible thing to come home too after waiting for a year and missing and loveing someone so much.. stay away go get a gf.. dont do it man..please
2007-03-27 05:59:44 · answer #6 · answered by Dr.Icebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No of course poor man in Iraq
2007-03-27 05:52:05 · answer #7 · answered by SaveDarfur.org 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! First, do not put yourself through that! Then you could get attached and when he comes back you will be heart broken..and ya its just always a bad idea. Find someone who wants to be with you and only you! Plus why would you want to do that to some poor guy who is defending our country? Cheating is horrible..do not be a part of it.
2007-03-27 05:52:10 · answer #8 · answered by Olivia 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
NO...leave her alone...she doesn't need that on top of her worry about her man in Iraq...if you care anything about her keep a far distance but be nice...
2007-03-27 05:51:10 · answer #9 · answered by angeleyez1956@verizon.net 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Well Since ur a woman also I dont think her husband would be more upset than if u were a man so go for it!
2007-03-27 05:58:06 · answer #10 · answered by G-BOY 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Are you a woman....?
Anyways - either way no. She is supposed to be faithful to her husband while he is fighting for his country. He's in a stressful situation - she definitely doesnt need to be screwing around behind his back...
Shame on her.
2007-03-27 05:51:52 · answer #11 · answered by beckyvincenzes 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋