My cousin had thalassemia and died suddenly. I am very shocked and upset. I can't attend the funeral and I want to send a letter to my aunt and uncle expressing my condolences. I am in such a state that everything I write sounds trite and repetitive. I could really use some help and any advice would be much appreciated.
2007-03-27 05:37:35 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Etiquette
I am deeply saddened by (xxxx's) death, and I know that the loss of your child has been a terrible blow to you both. My heart and thoughts are with you, and I pray you will be comforted in your grief.
(xxxx) was a wonderful person. Once when we were together (xxxx) and I ...(tell of a personal remembrance here, a good and happy one)...
I will never forget (xxxx), and I hope that in time your sorrow and pain will be forgotten, and only all the good memories will remain.
2007-03-27 05:52:16 · answer #1 · answered by Ana Thema 5 · 23⤊ 11⤋
sometimes it's helpful to keep it REAL, then it not only helps you but also the ones left behind.
If you're creative, consider a poem regarding her life
Try just writing down your memories you shared with her while she was alive. You could include photos if you have them.
I'm sorry for your loss. Writing poems, and songs always helped me!
2007-03-27 05:43:53 · answer #2 · answered by nickname 5 · 7⤊ 3⤋
Send flowers. Write a note, but send flowers. "My dear Aunt and Uncle, I am so sorry about our loss. I wish I could be there, but am unable. If you need anything please call me. I send my love and condolences, and wish I could be with you in this trying time. Will attempt to get together on ____ date. Once again, I am so sorry for your loss. Love, Neice."
2007-03-27 15:50:17 · answer #3 · answered by Trillium 4 · 12⤊ 3⤋
When I need to write something like that and not sure what to write I will go online to an e-cards website and read the sympathy cards. I think they have some great ideas and sayings and I'm not just using what one person says, I'm getting my own ideas.
If you don't have a certain website that you use for e-cards just do a internet search and you'll find a few websites for sending e-cards so you can read the sayings. Good luck!
2007-03-27 05:43:45 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 6⤋
To Aunt (name) , my friends and loved ones,
I have been beside myself with heartbreak and loss due to the untimely seperation of my dear Cousin(fill in the blank)
he/she was one of the brightest and moving people in my
life
(put in a moment that you remember with such cousin)
It only pains me more to be away from the Family at this
moment due to (whatever honest reason) but with every
word stroked to this paper I give my deepest love,
greatest memories ,and heartfelt emotions at this our time
of seperation,yet knowing when time stretches into infinity
or we have shuffled off our mortal coils..we will all be united
with (cousin) in constant love joy and happiness.
yours,
(your name)
2007-03-27 05:55:06 · answer #5 · answered by Johnnie C 3 · 9⤊ 4⤋
So sorry for your great loss and" I" am here for you."
2007-03-27 06:15:19 · answer #6 · answered by Gypsy Gal 6 · 4⤊ 11⤋