ok i have some trouble with my family:
Steven[older brother]-he's tried 2 kill me twice i'm serious!!!!
he's an a$$whole actually i think he's doing drugs but i don't know if thats a fact though.he's mentally mest up thats what i say!!!
Mark[little brother] -he's a cry baby and he won't learn how 2 fight he's girly he's more of a wimp than me and he's a year younger than me
dad-he gets drunk too much and hasn't been himself since mom divorced him but it was a mutual decision and won't quit
chasing after woman and blaming them for what mom did and
he already has a great girlfriend living with us yet he wants more and doesn't care about anyones feelings
mom- she's been nicer and more outgoing since she divorced dad actually i think she's better off without him ecspecailly since she's been living with Keith and Tommy!!![keith is the dad,tommy his son]
so got any suggetions on how to get along with my family?
i think i'd be better off without steven
2007-03-27 05:37:02 · 16 answers · asked by -♥-Tay-Tay-♥- 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
k if he as actually tried to kill you tell your parents, if they don't do anything then get the hell away from him some how. Also I think that you should ask to live with your mom
2007-04-02 17:43:44 · answer #1 · answered by snoboard13 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
There's a lot going on - and everyone has their problems - but if you have a brother who does drugs and has tried to kill you - you have to tell someone besides Yahoo Answers! I'd say that your mother should be concerned since it is her son but she probably already suspects he has some pretty bad problems. What she doesn't know is that he can hurt or kill - so you should tell her. Ask her what to do next. If she doesn't know, you need to go to your Dad - I didn't suggest him first because he sounds like he's living in the middle of this and not seeing it so he might be in denial.
Parents notified and nothing is done? Next stop - call the police. And if your brother threatens you, hope you have a witness and definitely call the police.
2007-04-04 03:53:40 · answer #2 · answered by kathyw 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your dad or your mom that your family needs counseling to deal with the problems that havent been resolved since the divorce. Hopefully one of your parents will lead the way and get you and your siblings into counseling. If not maybe its possible you get into a low income counseling clinic or advice from a church or school counselor.
2007-04-02 18:51:02 · answer #3 · answered by oceanqueen1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Is the possiblity that you could live with your mother. Also your father should stop drinking and pay attention to the children. He should also get the one into somekind of counseling its not normal to want to kill someone. You sound like you are unhappy in this situation and maybe moving with your mother will help you to find some happiness.
2007-04-03 05:15:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you even live with your Dad? A mother should never let her children suffer especially since she is now living with some one and helping him raise HIS son, she needs to take care of her own children first!Talk to her! Hope everything works out for you and your younger brother...
2007-04-04 04:10:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Can you go live with your mum?
Sounds like you want to grow up in a healthy balanced environment. Tis wise.
Can you take Mark with you? Without you there he will be the next target of Steven...
All the best Sweety.
2007-03-27 13:59:47 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Run to mommy as soon as possible. Your life is in real danger with a brother like steven, so take my advised and ask your mom if you could live with her, I'm sure she will not mind.
2007-04-03 07:59:22 · answer #7 · answered by Me, Myself & I 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let the police know about Steven it is the only way your going to live and he is going to get help .
2007-04-04 02:49:20 · answer #8 · answered by knightrunner13 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
// Thats scary .. having your brother tryin to kill you .. whoa freaky .... you should tell someone about it ... and cant your mom take custody of you ? ... i mean unless you can compromise with steven .... sometimes jnust go out for a walk with him and be a sister.... ask him if anything is wrong ... maybe he is stilled moved by his mother leaving him... and the younger one ... train him .. i have younger siblings and they are very well tamed .. u can do it .. .good luck !
2007-04-03 13:38:52 · answer #9 · answered by Salma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I say if you think your brother is so mental sit dow and tlk to him about it. Don't yell at him either. Just sit and ask him is there anything you want to talk about that is in your life?And for your dad.If you don't like him getting to drunk don't live with him! And if you have to live with him sit with your mom and have a little conversation! Ask your mom nicely can i live with you i don't want to live with dad.
Hope you have a better life,
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2007-04-04 00:45:12 · answer #10 · answered by neilani. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋