like u will think, "oh every other week i will talk to her so she doesnt think i like her" kinda thing?
2007-03-27 05:36:38 · 7 answers · asked by BabyPosh 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah.. thats easy. its like a game exactly and some guys know how to play and some dont.. if your realy hott they think that you must get hit on a lot.. so they dont want to be just another guy hitting on you all the time.. so they give you space and come back and give space.. its like.. they're letting you know they like you and showing you that they can live without you.. even if they cant.. sort of leaving the decision up to you.. with in mind of the old saying "you want what you cant have" then you have the other guy that thinks the other approch will work.. such as hanging out with you everyday.. calling you everynite and show he cares untill you give in to his flattery.. they both work but on diffrent kinds of women.. and ther are many other "approches".. it realy is like a game.. the object is to win.. to win you! and so there actions depend on that.. if there doing something you dont like.. just tell them.. if they do like you they'll stop.. enless they are not so good with women at all.. anyways.. the answer is yes.. just thought id give you some examples on why..
2007-03-27 05:48:58 · answer #1 · answered by Dr.Icebreaker 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally avoid playing games. I have been burned by others playing games, and know quite a few people who have experienced the same thing. Matters of the heart/love are very sensitive to many people. Out of respect for others, people shouldn't play games like that.
2007-03-27 12:43:41 · answer #2 · answered by Antoine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes they do. I went through the same thing with my last bf. He would do things that made me think that he was just playing me. I went through that for 15 months and I finally gave up and left him alone. Now he is calling me and wondering why....I just explained to him that I no longer wish to be treated like he did not care about me. Now that he wants a real relationship I am no longer interested in him and he can't believe it. I've moved on and honestly... I am very happy that I did. Good luck!
2007-03-27 12:44:08 · answer #3 · answered by teri d 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
when I was young I did that. I am older now and able to express my feelings but sometimes even now when I am around somebody I like I just cant get it together. Its hard tho cause we men cant really get our emotions in check. But I try these days to just be straight up and tell how I feel and put it out there and if I get burned then hey put a band aid on it and let it heal stronger
2007-03-27 14:05:12 · answer #4 · answered by sirloin 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think thats me!!lol
I think I do this coze I get really nervous when it comes to the person I like...and I start doing all the opposite things and send him signals that Im not interested in him.
2007-03-27 12:40:54 · answer #5 · answered by G?ld?n ang?l 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah i play games with people and im agirl but wanna know why i play games with people? Becaus its super fun
2007-03-27 12:40:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sometimes when they love u they really pretend they dont love u becos they think when they do so, u will walk all over them.
2007-03-27 12:42:59 · answer #7 · answered by pOOhPhAT 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋