Advice me please!?
need help?
i love a grl frm our class ( 9th class ) who of the same age as mine (14). we have been friends from 8 years, and my close frndship has turned into love for her.
i cant imagine myself widout her at all...
nxt year after school, we have 2 part, nd i keep getting worried.
what shud b my nxt step? i dont want her 2 think i'm bad and leave me, cuz her frndship is very imp. she is sooooo nice
my feelings arent sexual at all
i donno watta do.....
if i get 2 kno her feelings, at least i'll have peace of mind
i love her soooooo much
pls, help
there are 2 things i am worried about
1) telling her now may mean loss of her frndship if she gets angry and rejects
2) telling her later, i mean keeping it 4 later may b'cm too late
which is better?
please no trash.....i am desperate
can u tell me wat wrds i shd use to propose 2 her?
2007-03-27 05:34:04 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well, i'm kinda in the same situation, what ppl are telling me 2 do is just talk to her about it.....I mean, you never know weither or not she has the same feelings for you......do you want to be sitting there in your 40's sayin, "I wish I woulda chanced it and just told her how I felt." I mean, there's a huge chance that she could like you as well, and you never know until you try. also what ppl are askin me is "do you ever remeber who asked you out and who turned you down?" if she turns you down you can still be friends, she'll move on and forget and so will you.
2007-03-27 05:42:44 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
do no longer circulate to the occasion. in the experience that your acquaintances ask why tell them how he makes you experience. don't be impolite to him, yet attempt to stay out of his way. If he starts getting thank you to pushy, as in violent, or does some thing you disagree with, tell a make certain/dad or mum/family contributors member or maybe a instructor. no person has the outstanding to make you experience like this, and its sparkling all he needs is intercourse. Your 13 and you mustn't be entering into this. be happy and unfastened and don't enable him push you around. wish this facilitates.
2016-10-20 01:33:06 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, I don't know but when I was in HS, a long time ago, I was totally in love with the most beautiful girl in the whole wide world but never told her so that was that. Years later I found out that she had liked me too. Bummer.
Try being honest and saying something like, "I want to be more than friends."
2007-03-27 05:42:49 · answer #3 · answered by forlove 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your going to loose her even if you tell her or not. Think about if you don't tell her and you never see her again. You don't want to live with "what if" for the rest of your life.
Take the time and effort with your own words how much you truly feel about her. Write your feelings down if that helps (but don't pull out the paper when u tell her.)
2007-03-27 05:54:54 · answer #4 · answered by lanesplitter 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her " We have been friends for a long time and you are like my best friend. Over time i have began to have feelings for you and i really like you. If you do not feel the same way, i understand but i do not want anything to be weird between us and would still like to be friends. If you do like me then would you like to go out sometime?" That's all you have to say.
2007-03-27 05:46:30 · answer #5 · answered by CUTIE 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just listen to your heart and no one else.Do like you feel it's right in the moment.Just prepare a terrain and be careful,maybe she shares the same feelings as you!Best wishes!
2007-03-27 05:41:58 · answer #6 · answered by ♥beautyfly♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell her now and hope for the best,better to try and suffer than not trying and suffering longer
2007-03-27 05:38:59 · answer #7 · answered by rajalu p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
at 14 you dont make proposals,
2007-03-27 05:40:25 · answer #8 · answered by wongfiehung2003 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eather way if you dont do something you will lose her, express your feelings NOW before its to late, you said you have to part with her.
2007-03-27 05:38:42 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you wouldn't know if you won't try... spill the beans... if she's a real friend... she'll stick around being a friend...
2007-03-27 05:41:23 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋