I am a college freshman, and I have a major crush on this classmate. I think she is a total package. She has the prettiest eyes i've ever seen, she is very intelligent, and she is pretty nice. I never felt attracted to a girl this strongly, but I sense that she is not that into me. I think she somehow knows that I like her. Oh well. Lately I have been trying quite hard to get over her. I try to keep myself busy, but I have to admit that I keep thinking of her. It is so unfortunate. I don't think I am an undatable guy. I am not sure if I'm handsome, but I am ripped (not bragging or being narcisstic but it's true). I am 5'11 and weigh 180, so appearancewise I think I'm alright. I work hard and treat ladies nicely. I am not that great of a talker, so I guess that is my most critical weakness. Oh well. Some friends of mine tell me that I should be persistent to win her heart, but I don't see that coming anytime soon. Cant find someone else as of now. I need some useful advice. Thanks.
2007-03-27 05:34:02 · 3 answers · asked by What Wtasdcvg 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you can't make some one like or love you, no matter what you do, they either do or don't. Try to occupy yourself with other theings, activities, try to meet new people, so you forget her. It is very hard but possible. Try to avoid her at all costs.
2007-03-27 05:50:18 · answer #1 · answered by venus11224 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Here is the tried-but-true method of getting over a college crush...
Next semester. You'll be in different classes, and you might not see her as much. If you do, pick a seat in the room where you can't see her. Concentrate on your studies, and find someone else to ask out.
Change of semester = change of scenery.
2007-03-27 12:40:44 · answer #2 · answered by Jarien 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just aske her out. If she says yes.....great! If she says no.... well now you know. I'm betting it will be a yeas though
2007-03-27 12:59:53 · answer #3 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋