I don't mean to insult or stereotype anyone, but I'm finding that most of the girls I meet are very selfish & arrogant. All the nice, decent women are already in relationships. I'm quite eager to date & get into a relationship, but I'm finding this to be an obstacle. It's really wearing on me that I'm single, any suggestions? I've tried pretty much everything I could think of to meet new people with little or no success.
2007-03-27 05:25:04 · 21 answers · asked by Diamond24 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
sweets...everyone is beautiful..u must know that..learn to bring out the best in people.Get to know them better..u'll learn a lot of things..trust me.If u cant go out with them..atleast u can help them.It would make u feel better:D...try to know wy they're so arrogant..lol..tough work..i know.Trust me..u'll find the love of yr life and life would be beautiful....good luck:)
2007-03-27 05:32:33 · answer #1 · answered by Beautiful 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The best way to meet someone compatible is through mutual friends and doing the things you love. Keep a positive attitude and don't be so quick to find what's wrong, but what is right about someone.
Relax and don't get stressed, in my experience the best relationships have been found when you least expect it. Also relationships take time. Many people in general can be self absorbed or it can be a defense from being hurt before.
Have fun with your friends and do what you love, you will find someone special along the way.
Good luck.
2007-03-27 12:32:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, there are still some decent and kind-hearted women out there... And I do honestly believe there are still some good guys out there too. It is the finding the right place and at the right time - but even sometimes it gets very discouraging.
I personally stay away from bars and clubs cause pretty much men and women are looking for one night stand. Well, for starters if you are religious/spiritual - temples and churches are a good place to meet single women cause they're tons of them. And internet dating has become a popular way to meet people but be wary of potential players out there as well. You could try signing up for gym, hobby or school to meet more people. Singles events are a good way to go as well.
2007-03-27 12:35:55 · answer #3 · answered by mitchchan 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
lol i could ask where all the good guys have gone to like gentlemen i guess thats out of style now i sure wish i lived like 100 years or more ago that way most guys werent wanna be gangsta's that is such a turn off so i know how you feel plus i dont date alot cause i am picky and want a good guy i dont just date to date all i have got to say is keep trying and good luck oh yea btw if you are looking for certian things in a girl like someone intrested in a certian sport go to games highschool magor league whatever
2007-03-27 12:32:42 · answer #4 · answered by Avaria 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you meet a Cancer or a Taurus you've found one! Might be kinda hard since they are homebodies but try the mall they like looking good. The Cancer will most likely be very attractive so don't be intimidated if you see a very attractive girl that has loads of confidence that's how they are but they are very sweet once you get below the surface. But don't come off as needy and desperate that's a turn off no matter who the women is. Have confidence in your approach, its sexy.
2007-03-27 12:41:06 · answer #5 · answered by GoodGirl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good girls are still out there. Unfortunately the good girls (such as myself) are attracted to the bad boys for some strange reason. I guess it's the challenge that the bad boys give us and we love it. Don't get me wrong I am still attracted to a nice guy however you can be nice with a little bad boy streak in you. If you got that streak, then that would definitely be a plus on your part. Just be patient and don't give up because there's someone for everybody.
2007-03-27 12:35:49 · answer #6 · answered by teri d 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I was going through the same thing (but with men) I know it starts to be a pain, because you start thinking is there any normal people out there. I just meant the love of my life when I was about to get out of the dating game, but all I can say is hang in there.
Try this, try dating someone you would not normally date, I mean she should be attractive to you of course
2007-03-27 12:31:14 · answer #7 · answered by Raya 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hey!! We are here!!! hehe
Know the feeling, being single sucks!!
Hate the bar scene, hate Internet dating, where can someone meet a good person these days!! Sorry can't think of any suggestions but if you find one, let me know too! :)
2007-03-27 12:32:48 · answer #8 · answered by Laea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do you have a friend that is a church goer? If so perhaps they would have a singles group. I don't suggest Internet shopping. To many liars and weirdos out there. Perhaps a convenient store you visit to buy newspapers or drinks at might have a nice single person too. That's how i met my husband 14 years ago. Good luck!!!
2007-03-27 12:32:11 · answer #9 · answered by bugjuice 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Good girls are out their...you just gotta be patient. Try getting to know someone who you may not even talk to. I'm not saying to settle...but sometimes you gotta branch out a little bit. Think outside of the box
2007-03-27 12:31:41 · answer #10 · answered by The girl next door 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Seems as though you are just frustrated, you aren't insulting or stereotyping anyone. All that you can do is be patient, and someone out there someday will appreciate you.
2007-03-27 12:33:41 · answer #11 · answered by jumba 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋