I have a crush with a girl whom i've known for a month and at last she gave her phone number to me..after some persuasion hehe..but know I've got it dunno what to tell her once I call...and by the way she told me she doesn't like long conversations...
1)whats the best question to say for her make her open up for a long conversation? so we can be more close..
2)is it possible that the girl likes me too because she gave her phone number?
P.S: she knows I like her and she's not affected by my presence if you know what i mean...
2007-03-27 05:23:22 · 11 answers · asked by Gelo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ask her anything that comes to your head. You don't want to offend her, so don't ask anything sexual. Ask what she likes to do, her views on certain things, what her favorite things are, etc. When she answers relate to her with your own experiences. She might start asking you questions and if you can be interesting and give her interesting answers, she'll start to like you. Throw in some funny stories, embarrassing moments, or exciting stories. You can make a game out of it and since you've known her for a month it shouldn't be too weird. Build up comfort and eventually it will be easy to ask her out.
2007-03-27 05:46:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girls are very wierd we can give you our phone number because we just like you as a friend do not read to much into it. But to be honest she might have a boyfriend or just got out of a long relationship just need more info..
2007-03-27 12:34:25 · answer #2 · answered by Joy A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Play off of what she wants - she says she doesn't want long conversations. Fine - plan a series of short conversations that are witty, or provocative. Ask her to go to something public and non-threatening and unusual - let her get used to being in your presence - and you in hers. Go slowly - and in time, if things go well, she will want the longer conversation.
But the idea will come from her - which is what you want.
2007-03-27 12:28:19 · answer #3 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You just need to take the time and put in the effort to get to know her.
That's the only way to really get to know someone.
You could ask her friends what type of things she's into, find out her kind of music tastes and invite her to a gig, or plan a night out and invite her and some friends.
Come up with some different and interesting ideas, go to a roller disco, go ice skating, go swimming, get her interested in getting to know you!
2007-03-27 12:28:20 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hmmmm....Well, if you really wanna get close to her, don't just call her to spike up a conversation about eachother's lives. Girls sometimes just like it when a guy calls to say "I was thinking about you." or "I can't wait to see you.". I have no clue if she'll like that though.
About the question...hmm...
If you guys enjoy personal conversations, talk about your past and how well you get along with your family. If you don't, try and start with,"What's your favorite food?" Haha, my boyfriend asked me that last night and we talked for about 10 or 15 minutes about how much we like chinese food. XD Good luck~
2007-03-27 12:29:56 · answer #5 · answered by Eziah 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well maybe you should just start out with short hellos and i just wanted to see how you were doing. then you can go talking a little longer each time you call her.you dont wanna just jump intry to take long conversations without short ones.If you pressure her you will seem like a person who is just trying to get some and then move on.
2007-03-27 12:29:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ask her out! Don't keep her waiting, she will get sooooo turned off. Just be like "Hey, it's _____. Wanna go to the movies and some dinner?" Make it casual and DON'T SAY "UM". Try to play it "cool", like you KNOW what your doing. Maybe be a little flirty :]
2007-03-27 12:27:10 · answer #7 · answered by Jaime 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
4 number 1)hey you, hows it going, jsut wanted to stop and say hi...
4 number 2) it just depends did she give it to u befor or after she knew you like her? if she gave it to u after...MAJOR possability!
2007-03-27 12:28:44 · answer #8 · answered by Emms 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
talk about music.as for your 2nd quistion,yes she likes you! she you her phone number, I would have to realy like a guy to give him my number.
2007-03-27 12:29:17 · answer #9 · answered by eowynspirit 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well ask her about homework or ask her out
2007-03-27 12:29:41 · answer #10 · answered by evwetherell07 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋