he has always hurt me used me and never really acts like he cares until we break up then we get back together and he is his hurtful self
2007-03-27 05:22:34 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Work on your self esteem....you don't need him if he hurts you. Someday you will find someone you doesn't hurt you and you'll be wondering what your ex's name was! Make a concerned effort to MOVE ON!
2007-03-27 05:28:48 · answer #1 · answered by sunshinegirl 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Girl, that sounds exactly how my ex was with me and those kind of men are not even men they are boys. The best way to get over him is to move on and find someone better also cut ALL ties with this guy and ignore him. He'll eventually get the hint and leave you alone. Please whatever you do don't get back together with this idiot he will most likely do it again and again and keep taking advantage of you as long as you let him been there done that and guys like this don't change.
2007-03-27 12:47:37 · answer #2 · answered by Momof1 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one. Girls like you want to 'tame the wild ones' and change him. It's those rare moments of niceness that keep you there through the majority of abuse you receive.
It keeps things alive and interesting for you, as you constantly have a challenge with him. Things are too easy when they're handed to you on a plate, the chase is always better than having it.
You just need to realise he will never change, no amount of adviceon here will help until you decide to be strong for once and walk away for good.
Once you do, you will realise that relationships can be enjoyable, there are nice guys out there who want to treat you right.
2007-03-27 12:32:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish I had an answer. I'm still getting over mine, but he hurt my feelings so bad, that I don't think I can take anymore rejection and lack of consideration for me as as person. I know that I love him but I have to love me more and I do. Slowly everything good that I felt about him is going out the window, and when I think of him, I quickly block him out. I'm not even trying it's just happening. When you have had enough you will let him go. Good luck.
2007-03-27 12:33:35 · answer #4 · answered by krispykreme335 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I've been that guy in the past. He will keep doing it over and over again. It can go away with age but it doesn't always. Eventually he will realize to quit being an *** just because he knows he can. He's testing you to see how far he can push before you break.
2007-03-27 12:35:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all don't get offended your just stupid to stay with him. He is hurting you, and he will keep on hurting you if you keep getting back together with him. I'm sure you could find way better. If you like getting hurt then stay with him if you don't then leave him.
2007-03-27 12:30:17 · answer #6 · answered by ♥ɕɦɘȴƨ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this maybe hard but try not to think of him anymore, do different things, start different hobbies, meet new people, and by doing most of those things for sure you will be able to meet somebody 100% better than that loser of a boyfriend that you had. anyways good luck everything will work out eventually. :)
2007-03-27 12:30:20 · answer #7 · answered by cassandra59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is your problem. Do you like to get hurt? If not, then move on.
2007-03-27 12:27:38 · answer #8 · answered by luckford2004 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
MOVE ON MISS......MANY GUYS WILL FIND YOU,NO NEED FOR YOU TO FIND THEM...
2007-03-27 12:49:40 · answer #9 · answered by virgo7134 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋