Yesterday, my boyfriend of 2 years told me that he's finished with me because he found out I was cheating on him. I cheated on him once back in October and I felt bad so I told him what I did and he said he would give me another chance. Well, last week I met a guy at my work and he was so sexy, and I couldn't resist. I was going to keep it a secret, but my boyfriend found out about it. He was really mad, and he said he isn't waisting his time on me anymore because I'm not worth it. He is kicking ME out of his house.
How can I get him to trust/love me again? I don't want to leave the house because I really like the neighborhood, and if he kicks me out it means I will probably have to move in with my parents or a friend, and I think that's going to happen but I don't want it to happen. PLEASE help me?
2007-03-27 05:19:25 · 82 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
YOU GOTTA GO HO
2007-03-27 05:21:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 22⤊ 1⤋
You deserve to be kicked out and he deserves an apology, but he doesnt need you and he shouldnt take you back. At all. Ever. He should kick YOU out of the house. You gave up your right to live there back in october. Dont try to get him to trust/love you again. Your lucky he took you back the first time. Youre a cheater and you always will be. Go move in with your family or friends. Maybe that will put some shame on you and maybe then youll learn that its not fair to the other person to cheat. You give people like me a bad name. STOP CHEATING
2007-03-27 05:33:22 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 5⤊ 0⤋
In order for me to take your question seriously I had to find out if you are for real. So I looked at your previous answers and saw your male bashing answers about how 98% of males cheat and they are pigs etc... So how can you seriously ask this question? Your boyfriend obviously was wasting his time. You like his neighbourhood that's why you want to be with him? I'm gonna answer you the way you have answered others. "Grow Up". That is one of the most ridiculous things I've ever heard. Work hard and buy your own house in a nice area. Or shack up with some other schmuck. I hope you treat your friends better than your boyfriends or your butt will be on the streets again.
2007-03-27 05:33:43 · answer #3 · answered by Michelle 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
You should not have cheated again he gave you another chance and you made a mistake. Would you give him another chance?
He still loves you true love does not just go away like that but he does not trust you adn rebuilding trust can be a long and hard road.. If he gives you another chance you are going to have to walk a fine line for a long long time and that is not going to be easy. You will tired of always being the one to prove yourself and him always wondering if you are being honest. But you brought this on yourself..
Look back at the reasons you do not want to leave: you stated the neighborhood you like it, and moving in with your parents or a friend. Not one time did you mention you like or even loved him he was not in those reasons at all.
Seems to me by what you wrote he is not in the picture and you are only with him because of the area and not wanting to move.
If you find yourself wanting to be with others then you are not getting what you need from your relationship and it is time to move on as hard as that may be. There is no reason you should stay when you are not getting what you need nor is there any reason to have him live not knowing when the next shoe will drop that is unfair to him as well.
Sometimes it is hard to move on and let go but really you should do that no matter how much you do not want to it is only fair to the both of you to be able to live life and be happy. He deserves and faithful and honest person and you deserve to have someone who will fill your life like you need and it sounds as if this is not happening.
No-one is beyond making a mistake but we do have to own up to them and at times that means letting go..
2007-03-27 05:30:20 · answer #4 · answered by Tonya R 2 · 2⤊ 1⤋
well your purpose for wanting to stay with him is because of the neighborhood? not good. well you keep cheating on him that must mean you don't care about him. and about getting his trust back it probably wont happen. just think you cheated on him in October he forgave you probably thinking it was a mistake that wouldn't happen again, but it did. the trust wont come back especially after two times. clearly what you need to do is swallow it up and go back with your parents if you have to and i know noone likes to do it. save up some money and get yourself your own place. then you can do what you want. don't try to stay with the guy just because you like the neighborhood he lives in.
2007-03-27 05:26:14 · answer #5 · answered by Nikki25 2 · 3⤊ 0⤋
there is no way u can make him trust u, he has to come to the conclusion on his own
and i mean how could he trust u, you cheated on him once and he took u back, he was probably still hurt from that time
and whats to stop u from cheating again, like u said u just couldn't resist
good luck though maybe ull find someone that will cheat on u see how that feels, sorry im a little bitter with ppl that cheat, i mean if ur going to cheat just break off the relationship, because obviously u dont care about it to much for u to cheat
2007-03-27 05:25:42 · answer #6 · answered by NoOneKnowsMe 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
"I don't want to leave the house because I really like the neighborhood, and if he kicks me out it means I will probably have to move in with my parents or a friend, and I think that's going to happen but I don't want it to happen"
WTF
u dont wanna move cauze u like ther neighborhood???
he is right, he should kick u out of his house
u are a parasite and u dont love him, if u loved him u would resist to others guys
That thing of "resisting" jus happens in telivision, in real life u know what u have to do, u are not a dog hungry for sex!
Give up of ur bf and change ur personality ( u have the habits of a *****)
PS- sorry if i offended u but u dont deserve the guy
2007-03-27 05:45:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Seriously...you cheated twice on him! You can't possibly love him or this would not have happened. Sounds like your just scared to be on your own and take care of yourself, doesn't sound like you love him, sounds like you love the material things he has provided for you! Time for a reality check.
You shouldn't ask us for help because your the one that cheated on someone that loved you for two years! Your not going to get nice answers here! Move out, then you can be with as many people as you want, seems you don't care to be with just one man...You had a chance and blew it, and then did it again!! Get off your pity party.
2007-03-27 05:25:55 · answer #8 · answered by Laea 3 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'd have thrown your A S S out the first time.. you've done it twice now, maybe your a nymphomaniac and need treatment.
That can be treated you know..
I suggest you get tested for STD's people like you are carriers.. as a concerned EX you should also tell your ex boyfriend to do the same. Go live in your new studs house.. or is he married.. LOL
2007-03-27 05:25:11 · answer #9 · answered by gregory_usa83 4 · 4⤊ 0⤋
Those are the consequences for your actions & i believe you deserve to be kicked out.
You cheated on him once & he gave you another chance.... you cheat on him again & you've betrayed his trust & ruined your chances.
If you truly loved him you wouldn't have cheated on him TWICE.
You sound like an extremely shallow person....... You cheat on this guy twice & you're more concerned with having to leave the house rather than being concerned about the emotional damage you may have caused this guy.
You make me sick!
2007-03-27 05:23:49 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋
First of all, it doesn't sound like you really care too much about your bf.. it seems like you just want to stay in the house because you don't want to go live with your parents and you like the neighbourhood. You cheated, face it! It's nice that he forgave you once, but you wasted your chance and don't deserve to have him back. Move on, let him go live his own life, and don't make such a stupid mistake next time. Sorry...
2007-03-27 05:24:10 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 5⤊ 0⤋