well, basically, i think im in LOVE with a teacher at my school.
He is an IT teacher(and im a girl, lol) and hes really sweet, and i dunno what to do... how should i act? should i go in for the pull or what?
Im average height, curvy, and have lovely golden coloured hair, blue eyes, defined cheek bones.
2007-03-27 05:17:55 · 26 answers · asked by sheer.blonde xx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Hes about 25, and im (embarassed face) 15. hees a very nice guy, and shows outwardly feelings for me, like he touches my hand and compliments me on hw i look (as anyone who knows me, knows my self esteem is quite low, so its really nice) he doesnt appear to be married/engaged, etc.
2007-03-27 05:43:46 · update #1
I think that really what matters is how old you both are...
High school: forget it. Don't even go there... just keep crushing, but don't do anything different.
College/Post Secondary: wait 'till the semester is over, and grades are in. Then, you can talk about how you feel to him.
During the class, keep it casual. Answer questions and stuff so he'll remember you, but don't be over flirty, that might actually hurt his opinion of you. Keep it professional.
2007-03-27 05:23:35 · answer #1 · answered by Sylvie M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First question is what is the age difference here? Is it significant? No matter what the ages though, wait till you are no longer his student. He can get in a lot of trouble for that type of relationship with a current student, favoritism being one. And if he's truly a good teacher he would turn you down so he didn't jeopardize his job. When the semester is over, then try talking to him and maybe ask him out to dinner or something. Because if he is interested you don't want him to say no, just cause you asked a little too soon.
2007-03-27 12:23:12 · answer #2 · answered by kMaz 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That all depends on many things. What age are you? If you are in high school, well, you can forget about it! but, if you are 18 and over and in college, well, you can still forget about it! (It may ruin his career if found out.)
You may be attractive and he may be hot, but, consider the consequences. Whether you are in high school or in college, a student/teacher relationship is not a good one. It may reflect bad on the both of you if word got out. And, teachers do not make a lot of money and this is someones lively hood you are taking away. The only way this would work if you are 18 and over and he is a different school that he is teaching and that you are going to.
Other than that, stay away. Or, the rest of his life would be ruin-and so will yours.
2007-03-27 12:25:40 · answer #3 · answered by uchaboo 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most schools, even into university level, prohibit instructors from dating students, so if he dated you he could lose his job. From the sounds of it, he is a public school teacher and you are under 18, in which case, it is definitely not allowed. Your best off to forget him, most likely he would not be interested since you are a child and he is an adult. He may be flattered and you are probably not the first student to have a crush on him, but it can never be, so move on.
2007-03-27 12:26:16 · answer #4 · answered by Kevin J 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A teacher having any romantic or sexual involvement with his student is going to not only get fired, but if you're underage he'll get arrested as well. What goes on his record will probably prevent him from ever being able to get another teaching job. So you should not follow up on anything and don't say anything to him, for his sake.
2007-03-27 12:21:35 · answer #5 · answered by charmedchiclet 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if you are over 18 - getting involved with a teacher will, at the very least, get him fired.
If you love him, leave him alone until you are free to actually do something about it. As long as he is a teacher and you are a student, neither one of you is free to do anything about it.
2007-03-27 12:21:31 · answer #6 · answered by Uncle John 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
no, no, no, no, no...
Teacher crushes are as old as that profession, but it is illegal (unless you are in college?). I'm sure you're a beautiful girl and the description is completely unnecessary. I would even go so far as to ask for a class change... This is very wrong and don't tempt that man into something that he can spend the rest of his life regretting (having to declare himself as a sexual predator for the rest of his life). Have some respect for you and for him.
2007-03-27 12:21:51 · answer #7 · answered by Lisa A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah how old are you, that makes a big difference. If your in college then go for it, but understand that getting involved with a teacher can be a bad thing. However, if you are in high school thatd be a no no! Its just a crush that you will get over and you can get him fired, if you pursue it.
2007-03-27 12:21:44 · answer #8 · answered by sparkle_babi86 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl, I think this is just a crush on him and it's not love.
Don't do this mistake. The consequences could be far worse than what you could possibly imagine.
Play around with guys your age.
2007-03-27 12:23:59 · answer #9 · answered by peachy 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you in high school? College? If you are in high school, definitely not! Out of line-straight up. You could get him into a lot of trouble and he could lose his job! He could go to jail! If college, then it depends. If you are of age, and he's pretty young, I think it depends on if he's interested and not married or anything.
2007-03-27 12:21:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋