My boyfriend and I want to get marry. But now he is not calling me or talking to me. I haven't talked to him over 2 months now. Should I move on or try to talk to him?
2007-03-27 05:16:49 · 15 answers · asked by loretta b 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I tried to call him but he will not talk to me. I tried to block my number out. He still will not talk to me.
2007-03-27 06:33:49 · update #1
Simply because this relationship seems to be hanging, you need to talk to him. But don't ask a lot of questions or demand explanations, etc. It's pretty clear that only one of you really wanted to get married--and it wasn't him. You need to say to him something along the lines of, "I thought we were at the point of committment, even marriage, but there's no chance of that when you cut me off cold. So, I just want you to know, it's over. I'm not coming after you. I'm going to find a guy who can love me honestly. All I ask of you is that you not deceive any other woman the way you did me." Then say goodbye, and go. Don't look back.
2007-03-27 05:24:56 · answer #1 · answered by katbyrd41 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
2 months?
Did you ever attempt to pick up the phone and call him? If not, I think you both ruined the relationship. He has probably found some other girl ... move on, or at least try to contact him and ask what's going on.
2007-03-27 05:21:32 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say he probably got what he wanted by saying these things to you and if its been 2 months you might consider moving on..
2 MONTHS..!!!! I would take the hint after 2 weeks..
2007-03-27 05:20:32 · answer #3 · answered by gregory_usa83 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did something happen before he stopped calling? It's been two months, so try to talk to him, but since it's been so long it may be that he's changed his mind. Prepare yourself for the possiblity that he's moved on, but allow yourself to talk to him -- CALMLY!
2007-03-27 05:21:20 · answer #4 · answered by Red 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wish i knew what to tell you, but my ex told he wanted to marry me, and ended up marrying someone else. I would dare to say that you should move on, but before that, you should talk to him, to see what is wrong with him. After that, move on, because he is probably not worth your while.
2007-03-27 05:20:20 · answer #5 · answered by Maria Isabel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you meant your boyfriend "wanted" to get married to you. But even then, he might have been lying.
I know this REALLY hurts and you might not want to believe it. But:
A: Any guy who doesn't talk to their girl for two months - no matter what stage of the relationship - is no guy you want to be with.
B: He is over you.
C: Don't believe his lies.
2007-03-27 05:20:00 · answer #6 · answered by Peter N 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think you should talk this over with him first, and if still keeps on ignoring you move on, because he's wasting your time.
2007-03-27 05:20:44 · answer #7 · answered by cassandra59 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he is trying to get rid of you, sorry. Definitely time to move on.
2007-03-27 05:19:48 · answer #8 · answered by Rat 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call him and ask him whats up. Don't take any nonsense. It's ridiculous that he hasn't called.
2007-03-27 05:52:04 · answer #9 · answered by megan261980 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cruel as it may sounds....move on..sounds like he wanted something besides marriage.
2007-03-27 05:20:53 · answer #10 · answered by kiya12bc 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋