how can one find love on the internet without making it public. adding pictures to it can sometime be deceivin

Question

my reason for asking this question is one will not disclose of one's real identity. sometime you will think you communicating with young person but that may be not true. before you will realise you have been deceive how can we know want really who particular we are communicating with.

how can one deter such deception please suggest way to help us detect.

how can you detect somebody is using another person picture

or you are speaking to the wrong guy

i think this is all l have for the moment.

Answer 1

Why don't you stop internet dating and get out there and meet real people.

Answer 2

1) webcam
2) recent pic. then ask for a different one a few days later. then after a few days, ask if they have one doing something specific (by their car, cycling, near a local shop, etc).. If the person is using someone else's picture. a genuine person should be able to give all 3 without too much trouble.... if he's a cheat stealing a pic from some random internet site, he will have real problems getting such a specific shot.
3) ask to speak to him on the phone.

Answer 3

Why not go out on the town, have fun and someone will be attacted to you.

Internet dating is a trick thing there are hundreds of people like you who looking for love but in the wrong places.

Then there are people who go online and pretend to be someone there not.

Answer 4

Be very careful, I think your young so be even more careful. I know of someone who met someone and when they went to meet them it was the mother she sent a picture of her daughter, now you just think if it were a man you could be in danger. Please be careful.

Answer 5

you could try only cam to cam talking on msn or yahoo, or you could try getting out there instead of internet dating. good luck xx

Answer 6

only chat cam to cam