If a guy told you That he's used to "Just sex" in the past with all the Girls he's been with, but yet he gets With you and never felt the way he feels about you (And he Tells you that) because your Different than any girl he's met Cause your 2 different races and religions, but that doesn't Seem to matter and Things get intense and he Constantly comes over and you end up having Sex with him, but you get a sense that he's fighting you and not accepting that fact that he has fallen for you, and Also the sex was different the last time cause he's held you and kissed you where you like and carressed your arm and asked you what you were Thinking and Stared at you like in an Intense, sensual & Love way but you get Uncomfortable and Look away and he asks "I can't stare at you or Something" etc and He also tells you that he's Ready to settle down and have a girlfriend, Despite his Religion (Muslim), but yet he can't Seem to Resit you...What does all of this mean?? Answers, even a Best one plz!
2007-03-27 04:50:01 · 11 answers · asked by kittysweetie19 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
2 possibilities what he says is true or he has mastered one of then oldest lines and techniques in the world. I'd vote for the second. This is a line that guys have used for ever and a bit longer. This guy is not good at committment. He claims to be part of a religion that requiires a degree of purity but ignores that. He admits to being out for his own pleasure in otehr relationships. He is from ma background that for ppl not committed to the purity aspect of the religion regards sex as a tool of conquest especially with ppl of different racial, ethnic, and religious backgrounds. That is not Muslim bashing it is reporting what Muslim guy friends have told me ever since I was a kid whose closest neighbors were of that background.
Franklly he is a STD witing to happen if it has not already happened. Chances of something conntagious and possibly fatal increase with every sex partner your partner has had. Guys get HPV ( warts in the private places and the virus even if no openly showing warts) but only women get cervical cancer the main cause of which is HPV. Condoms do not prevent the spread of HPV and don't prevent spread of som e other STD's, My advice is the next time he shows up wanting free sex don't answer the door. That sounds hard but the guy is using you and playing on your emotions too.
2007-03-27 05:07:31 · answer #1 · answered by A F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whoa! Does the term "Head trip" mean anything to you? Yes , you are different than the Lady I e-mailed 5 minutes ago and it doesn't matter if you believe in God or not. Do you accept the fact that I may be concerned enough that you make a good decision about this guy or are you going to fight it? So where am I going with this? I guess I might be messing with you head. If a guy/man isn't showing off his girl in public (arm in arm) restaurants, movies, clubs and those family outings, he just wants what your giving, sex. Don't make yourself so easy, okay? Get out and do things, that's what real boyfriends and girlfriends do. They go out.
2007-03-27 05:15:28 · answer #2 · answered by make room for daddy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st of all, you need to spend more time in english class because you can't write worth a damn. I can hardly understand what the hell you're talking about.
From what I gather, some muslim guy is giving you the bone and you're wondering if he wants a relationship. Well, here is my answer...
Whether he wants a relationship or not, run for the hills. Do you want to be degraded by wearing a veil or having your genitals mutilated? And if you're not muslim, his family will never accept you.
2007-03-27 04:57:43 · answer #3 · answered by gunga_gungalunga 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It makes perfect sense. How many women do you know would sleep with someone just for sex? Im sure he is telling you what he told all the others that he had "just for sex" If he really cared he would act on his feelings...not tell you about them. I bet he makes excuses like he doesn't know whats happening to him that he never felt this way before and makes excuses to leave....especially at night. He comes over at sporatic times always in a hurry and afterwards he finds a reason to leave pretty quickly?
2007-03-27 04:59:45 · answer #4 · answered by lookingwesttexas 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
This guy has done the just after sex routine so many times that he's got a fresh new line to use on a nice person like yourself.
Dump this moron. Find you a guy who doesn't spill the beans about all the girls he's screwed (literally and figuratively).
2007-03-27 04:56:09 · answer #5 · answered by Kiwi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any guy gives special attention to a woman that gives it up. You're being had and won't realize it until you later find out th eother women he sleeps with or he gets tired of you (not of sex, tired of you because he doesn't want the reality of who you are. A man never tires of sex.).
2007-03-27 05:07:51 · answer #6 · answered by jammers046 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think he's just being nice.. nothing else. eventually he'll get bored of you and find another chick. Guy like him is really not worth it. forget about him and move on.
2007-03-27 04:57:54 · answer #7 · answered by #1 Girl -She's Bittersweet- 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he told you- just sex
any man who wants you to be "that special girl" would never have told you that
he's a charmer
he doesn't want just sex he wants just GOOD sex
2007-03-27 04:58:56 · answer #8 · answered by ann s 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If someone shows you who they are and the way they think believe them!
2007-03-27 04:55:30 · answer #9 · answered by Khalil 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are mature enough for what lies ahead, if you are sure he's the one, then go for it! Just remember, be honest about everything!
2007-03-27 04:55:50 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋