Id like to know what do you think are the worst actions a guy can do when having a first date with a girl. Please be detailed if you can.:) thanks!
2007-03-27 04:44:08 · 20 answers · asked by bloodymary24 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i would do nothing that you didn't want me too. You can set the tone for the date. If you act like you are hot to trot the guy will pick up on this and oblige you. if on the other hand you set limits he will not go further than you let him go. You are actually in control of the date.
Personally, as a father, I would like to have the young man come by and meet me. Let me know what type person he is. This also tells him that I care about what my daughter is doing and looking out for her. I can also inform him as to what time she is to be home. If he is any kind of considerate boy he will have her home a little before that time to impress me that he is responsible. maybe I am old fashioned but it pays in the end.
You are the one, like I said, that conveys what he does on that first date...If you act like you are easy then he will oblige you and do everything he can to take you...if you say and act in a way that says certain things are off limits on the first date he will generally abide by your desires. After several dates if you like the guy then you can cut him some slack. I am not a old fuddy duddy...I know that sex happens and not against it at all I am not for abstinence, just no sex on the first date. Practice safe sex and birth control. If he forces the issue have him take you home or call a cab.
2007-03-27 05:04:59 · answer #1 · answered by pinelake302 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Worst things a guy could do on a first date in no particular order:
1. Be late
2. Dress sloppy
3. Pay attention to other women
4. Ignore the woman he is with
5. Talk dirty
6. Ask her to pay
etc.
2007-03-27 04:52:24 · answer #2 · answered by miner32001 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ahh, what a great question!
A: Talk about another woman.
Why: Why would you? Talking about another girl is a BIG no-no. If anything, talk about the girl you are on a date with to make her feel special, because she really is.
A: Make the girl pay.
Why: Its wrong, Guys need to be the man of the situation! I sometimes see guys trying to be slick and have the women pay the Tip. Forget that. Guys, pay in full.
A: Talk on the cell phone.
Why: That is so annoying, for both sexes anyways. Try to keep it as traditional as possible, be polite. Pull out her chair for her, ask her if she wants more to drink or to eat. Dont chat with your buddies.
I hope these are the answers you were looking for!
2007-03-27 04:50:22 · answer #3 · answered by Travis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Worst things, looking at other women is hands down the tackiest thing a man can do on ANY date, not just a first. You (females) should have his undevided attention, not to an overbearing point, but to be able to converse in an adult fashion but at the same time have a blast
2007-03-27 04:58:25 · answer #4 · answered by LCM82 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys will do anything on the first date except make a commitment. The real control on a date is with the woman.
2007-03-27 04:49:28 · answer #5 · answered by JB 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok. (1) Be late. (2) Forget your dates name. (3) Unwanted and/or excessive touching. (4) Being rude whether to others and/or your date. (5) Falling asleep. (6) Spending more than $15.00 on dinner per person and/or $20.00 on a movie per person. (7) Checking out others of the same gender as your date (Or if you really want to screw up, checking out others of your gender) (8) Giving any indication that you expect more than her company on the first, second, third, fourth and fifth date. In other words, unless she brings it up, no hinting that you want sex and or a good night kiss. Most if not all of this applies to the first 5 dates unless you have reason to extend it further. Good luck.
2007-03-27 04:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
This one's easy.
Never. Never. Have sex on the first date. It's takes away the intrigue.
Except when it doesn't.
2007-03-27 04:48:14 · answer #7 · answered by Marc G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stick two pencils in a girl ear and use them as handle
2007-03-27 04:47:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-12-08 12:26:07 · answer #9 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk about anything stupid, like sensitive subjects, or politics or religion, other than that ill be trying to have fun, laugh, get friendly/flirty and possibly make out and even lead to sex
2007-03-27 04:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋