2007-03-27 04:42:05 · 13 answers · asked by adam s 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
if you are worried about it talk to your wife if it were me i would have issues about it as you are never sure and there is some sick people in this world and sometimes they can be family
2007-03-27 09:41:26 · answer #1 · answered by janelle w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I wouldn't worry unless there are signs of abuse which doesn't happen that much. I have 2 niece's that spent a lot of time at their aunts home who was Gay and they both are well adjusted. One went thru college got her phd and is a shrink now the other is happily dating diffent men. I'm not gay personally, but do have lots of gay friends of both sexes. Most relatives are good for your kids to be around. Ask your brother in-law what he feels towards your son. If he is a nice person I wouldn't worry at all.
2007-03-27 06:17:21 · answer #2 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should be more worried about passing your ignorance down to your son. If you had a daughter and she went to spend the night at her heterosexual uncle's house, would you be worried? Being gay or straight has nothing to do with being a pedophile or not. You need to educate yourself.
2007-03-27 07:23:31 · answer #3 · answered by disneychick 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My brother is gay and my son loves to spend time with him. It's his uncle and he loves him. Just becasue he is gay doesnt' mean anything.
Your wife trusts your brother right? I think you should give him the benefit of the doubt as well.
2007-03-27 05:41:28 · answer #4 · answered by Valentina 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Gay does not mean he is into kids. Unless you want to protect your son from an open gay lifestyle, I see no reason you should worry.
2007-03-27 06:48:33 · answer #5 · answered by Question Addict 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on how he traets your boy, talk to your boy about good and bad things between adults and kids make your boy to trust and communicate with you as much as you can and if your boy don't like to go and spend the nigth with you in-law then there should be a problem and find out about it.... just have communications with ur kid and if you are not comfortable stop his sleeping over ....
2007-03-27 05:59:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course not. If your son has a little girl that he plays with, should her parents be worried about sending her over to play? I mean, after all, you're straight!
2007-03-27 05:25:48 · answer #7 · answered by spelling nazi 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why would you be worried? You are straight right, and your attracted to adult females. He is gay, so hes attracted to adult males. Your sexual preference is just that, it has nothing to do with pedophilia.
2007-03-27 09:45:20 · answer #8 · answered by ♥mama♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no he is gay not pedophile
no if your son is gay he will be gay and its not a bad thing
2007-03-27 06:56:25 · answer #9 · answered by jmk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no, just because he's gay doesnt mean he's going to harm your child. you need a hug
2007-03-27 05:24:41 · answer #10 · answered by isydnor 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋