She is beautifull and sweet, and she wont let me love her up. She put up a wall between us. i need help
2007-03-27 04:41:38 · 21 answers · asked by ? 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
IF SHE DON'T LOVE YOU THEIR IS NOTHING YOU CAN DO.
2007-03-27 04:44:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay...so you've never met her. I'm not a 'girl', but...after having chatted with thousands of people over the years...I've found that people online are not always who we think they are.
They may seem really nice online...but they could be totally different in person. Pictures are sufficient...anyone can dress themself up and make a nice picture, but that doesn't prove who they are. That causes quite a problem to 'love' a person that you haven't even met. Love isn't a feeling..."crushes" are nothing more than senseless infatuation. You "love" a person when you spend lots of quality time with them and get to know who they are on the inside, for their personality...not through some "beautiful" outward appearance. Which is seriously all that can be determined about a person so far away, through just pictures or audio conversations. Because again, anyone on here can be anyone they want to be.
2007-03-27 04:51:13 · answer #2 · answered by sls.spec 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-23 19:14:18 · answer #3 · answered by eich 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Im sorry to tell you this but if she's putting a wall in between I guess there's nothing else you can do about it. You need to find someone who really loves you or who's really interested in having a relationship with you, someone who appreciates your feelings. Go out with your friends, talk, cry and do anything you need to get over that woman. She doesnt deserve you if she's acting so arrogant. Good luck! :)
2007-03-27 04:46:26 · answer #4 · answered by bloodymary24 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There may be cultural differences but the plain fact is that no means no in Spanish as well as English. She is not at this time interested in the relationship you want. Respect that. If you can be friends without pushing for love and romance be friends if not just move on.
2007-03-27 04:54:11 · answer #5 · answered by A F 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am going through that situation right now,but no ur situation,the spanish girls situation lol
When we girls say no,we mean 100 times no,and move on and dont give us headaches ok
Im sure there are many girls out there that can be interisted in u,its not like the end of the world!!
2007-03-27 04:54:08 · answer #6 · answered by Pinky 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how this feels man, and honestly i say give it a few more weeks. Try to see whats up, maybe something is bothering her?
See if it makes her jealous if you talk about another girl, if she gets all bent, she could be jealous. Good luck though, Women from Spain ARE very gorgeous!
2007-03-27 04:45:43 · answer #7 · answered by Travis 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even if she is living in USA...if she doesn't like you...you just have to live with the idea!It's not the end of the world,is it?Good luck!
P.S:If she would be the one after you,and you won't like her,would you go for a relation just for the sake of it?
2007-03-28 01:15:46 · answer #8 · answered by sauvage 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let her go, and move on! "There are many fish in the sea!" You can't force someone to love you! That wall is a HINT!
2007-03-27 04:47:36 · answer #9 · answered by PumpkinNiki 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, this is strange. My father is an Italian, but he was raised in American, joined the Marines and protected the US embassay in Spain. My mom hated him, but he kept on trying. They have been married for 25 years. Don't stop and keep on trying. I know how we Spanish women are...
2007-03-27 04:46:01 · answer #10 · answered by fourcheeks4 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Its hard sometimes to get over someone....but you need to. If she doesn't want you there is nothing you can do to force her. Girls are complicated sometimes...Time will heal your heart.
2007-03-27 04:45:08 · answer #11 · answered by nsilva5 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋