okay so i met this guy during spring break and we started talking and have gone out a couple of times.We go to different schools but we go out sometimes on weekends.Hes good looking,nice personality,and kinda concieded beacuse hes really rich(were both 17)Sometimes i cant tell if hes just using me to have a good time or if he actually likes me becasuse im sure theres other girls all over him trying to golddig.The thing is im always the one looking for him,he never actually calls me.Well my friend also has a thing with one of hes friends so when they meet up,we meet up,but only becasue theyre gonna see eachother.I really like him,but i dont know how to tell if he actually likes me...i dotn wanna get hurt help pleasee in the name of jesus
2007-03-27 04:38:18 · 22 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WHY DON'T YOU TRY NOT CONTACTING HIM AND SEEING HIM. IF HE FINDS YOU, THEN YOU KNOW HE LIKES YOU. OR YOU COULD JUST ASK HIM HOW MUCH DOES HE LIKE YOU. GOOD LUCK.
2007-03-27 04:43:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
From the sound of it, he may have "some" interest in you. He may also be experimenting the possibility of having a "more than friends" relationship with you every time the two of you hang out. But since he's never the one to call you up, there might also be a possibility that you're not at the top of his "girls to date" list.
The best way to find out is to stop calling him and see if he'd call you in a matter of days or weeks. If he hasn't done that after like, a month. Chances are, he may not be interested to date you in a romantic way.
But, this is just my opinion. He could be just shy behind that "rich boy" exterior. I wish you well.
2007-03-27 05:05:15 · answer #2 · answered by Ms Ghost 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think if he liked you it would be obvious and you would know it! The fact that you are questioning it should tell you something.
Consider putting a little distance and see what that triggers. If he is interested he will come looking for you, if not...you get the picture.
It may very will be that if he is good looking and rich he has many lady friends. Especially at 17, there is a big chance that he will have a difficult time perhaps focusing on (1) person. Keep this in mind and be careful since it seems that you are candidate for getting hurt.
Good luck!
2007-03-27 04:45:39 · answer #3 · answered by U812B4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Chances are, if you have any doubts deep down inside, you should follow your chances. Just focus on being yourself. You should rather be with someone who's interested in the real you. Or it may be that all he wants is a friendship. I see that you ask for help in the name of Jesus. If you have prayed about this, you need to step back and let Jesus handle the situation. If He see that you are in desperate need of His help, then he will send you signs. You will miss out on these signs if you continue to try to handle this situation on your own. If it's as bad as it appears to be then you need to back off or ask the guy exactly where this relationship is headed. Trust me, he'll tell you how he feels. You just have to be smart and know GAME when you hear it.
2007-03-27 04:49:11 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If I were you, i would make like a banana and split!(hee hee, ive been wanting to use that all day!) but seriously, you really should think seriously about this guys actions. If he does not return your calls repeatedly...spelling????....then its a sign that hes preoccupied or that he feels to good and mighty or cool to return your calls., he could also be going through some hard times. next date, sit down and listen, let him explain how he is feeling without you attacking him on why he hasn't responded. if hes still a jerk? there are plenty of fish in the sea, and a lot of those fish have a nice big heart ready for a sweet girl like you!!!
2007-03-27 04:44:19 · answer #5 · answered by Cait 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
One important thing you said was that you are always the one looking for him, he never actually calls you.
Try not looking for him or calling him for a week or two, and see if he will miss you or make some effort to find you. If he doesn't, you can be sure he doesn't like you in that way. If he does, it is going in the right direction.
2007-03-27 04:42:24 · answer #6 · answered by Lilliana 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I know you don't want to get hurt. From what you wrote, it appears this guy likes you but is not that into you. He probably has many other girls he also goes out with and you are just one of many. If he really liked you, it would be him to get in touch with you, him who would do any thing to see you, call you, be with you. I feel you kind of already knew your answer before you asked it. You just needed to hear it from someone else. Wish I could have made you feel better, but I felt you needed to hear the truth. Best of luck to you!
2007-03-27 05:22:07 · answer #7 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your not having sex... Then he's not using you... Like you said he is rich and has a lot of other girls... He likes you company and really does like you... Girls are funny creatures, if you show interest they play games and run away, if you don't show interest they go on Yahoo Answers and ask other people if he likes them or not...
Now if you are having sex.. then I'm sorry to say, you may be getting used... but thats not only his fault... Its your fault too, for not opening the lines of communication... You should ask him straight out what he thinks, tell him to call you see what he does...
Like my momma always says it takes 2 to tango...
2007-03-27 04:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by Coach White 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LOL first dont use the lords name in vain..
and as for him liking you well his not using you because you have slept together or you havent said you have from the sounds of it he is playing hard to get or he just likes you as a mate so make a lil effort like make up and things but dont try to hard haha good luck babes ;-)
and if he dont like you that way im sure there are plenty of guys that do and who eer gets ya is lucky hehe
2007-03-27 04:44:02 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
in the name of Jesus, that's good. Asking the Lord for help.
You are in the right direction.
Scripture says "let every man be a liar"
only continue with the revelation of the Lord. Don't follow the crowd
2007-03-27 04:43:56 · answer #10 · answered by Stamping Machine 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok if your JUST talking then how are you being used? Are you having sex with him? It's seems to me that you telling half of a story. He liked you then he would call. If he liked you then he would make an effort to see you. He probably just thinks of you as a freind or a booty call. It's your choice. But he's not interested.
2007-03-27 04:44:35 · answer #11 · answered by aquaqwetty 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋