Orgasm Question?

Question

Ok, this is not to big up myself or anything but i am in kind of a situation here and wondered in anyone has an answer,,,,

Ok i am a normal man... am 27...I have alwys had a larger stamina during intercourse..now these days it seems to be goiing for hours.. i mena i need about 2 hours of actual work before i can have an orgasm...

I can have an orgasm in like 20 minutes...during oral.. but during 'normal' i can not...is this really bad????? i dont know... i am wondering because most gilrs get tired after 1.5 hours or so... and i am still going and still hard...(or atleast semi hard) what shoudl i do???????? can you please help.. right now its ok as i am single...but this a really problem when i am dating a girl...

many thanks

James

P.S As mentioned before i dont care if u think i am bigging upmyself.. its a really question from me so answer, if your going to contact me privately my e-mail is there in profile..

and the gilrs are not like.. loose.. for examply my ex was a virgin...and before that girl i ahve slept with i know thier history i am very health concious..

and yes i am cut!!

Answer 1

As a girl, I can't really help you...but I just wanted to say...WOW!!! I'm impressed! Either way, I can understand that girls get bored after a couple of hours of pure f***ing, so I understand your dilemma, especially cos I'm all about fast and hard...never mind...

OK, I was wondering, when you go for two hours and stuff, how do you do it? I mean do you do it as a continuous action or do you take it out and switch positions; basically, do you take a break? Cos I know for girls, taking a break is like starting all over again...so, maybe no breaks?

Then, another thing...if you can come fast during oral, why don't you do the oral thing almost to the end and then put it in? Have you tried that?

Also, have you explored further what kind of sex you like...do you like it rough, gentle, etc...cos the problem might be that you are just not aroused enough (or you subconsciously don't find it arousing). Either way, you have to explore your sexuality further...like I know what I like and I know what gives me Os...and believe it or not, lots of guys don't...they never thought about it...to them it's just in and out action with occasional switch...and once I started having sex with most guys and I introduced them to my preferences (nothing kinky like BDSM); aka rougher sex, most of them find it arousing w/o ever realizing it before. So, once you get a new partner, I suggest that you communicate with her and see what she likes and if you have to, bring a book with you (not the first time, of course, but like the 10th or something), because I believe that having a fulfilling sex life is very important and is crucial to our proper functioning and it does help relieve stress.

I don't think you are sick, or that there is something wrong with you; most guys would kill for your endurance...I think the problem is that you don't know your sexuality well enough (even if you are 27). So, think about that first. If you want to make sure that everything is OK, I'm posting a website that has info on prolonged erection (as a disease) and possible causes, but I think you're OK. Hope I helped a little...

http://www.mothernature.com/Library/bookshelf/Books/16/172.cfm

Answer 2

I dont see a problem, everyone is different, you just need to find a compatible partner, personally, after an hour, id get bored, as a female, i get off on oral, full intercourse is good but id never orgasm that way, maybe try oral before and after intercourse, then when you feel that you are going to climax, then put it in again, try different variations, toys etc....it can be difficult to relax if you are just having a 1 nighter, so maybe try seeing one person for a little longer, then you can experiment.

Answer 3

nothing to be ashamed of, you should be proud. Seriously if you find it a problem maybe you are stressed. If you can have an orgasm by oral in 20 min then I would say it is your thinking. Some guys (not many but some) want to satisfy a woman and this gets stuck in your mind and so it takes you longer. try to relax. think about something else like try imaging oral sex, or maybe try a different position. Something like that might help. Good luck.

Answer 4

As a guy, i could say technically that is an same feeling yet there are different factors that make sexual orgasms extra valuable. For one, only the emotional/actual "interior the on the spot" adventure of sex makes the climax sense a lot extra valuable than sitting residing house on my own consisting of your hand haha. And 2, being interior a woman feels a lot extra valuable than your palm : )

Answer 5

whoa buddy do be so steriotypical, not all girls last for only1.5 hours.
me i can go all night if i have too,i love sex, my man can last a half an hour for f**k sakes.
now for your problem with getting off is all in your head, you make yourself believe that you cantt reach that point so therefore you dont get there, you need to keep an open mind during that time.
and for the oral, it does feel different from acual sex.
but i dont have anything idea why it works best for you that way.
your not young anymore buddy and you need to get over yourself, enjoy what you got, and stop stressing over nothing, at least you can last unlike some men who last for what 15minutes, to half and hour
ok, so stop whinning

good luck

Answer 6

huh this i suppose really wont answer you but i havent had a real orgy in 2 years it blows it would take 3 hours for me it just never comes i suppose thats y im addicted to it because it never comes and i want it even if it were to come that would just make me want it more i can go for hours inwhich id love 2 but i need a man who can acctualy go that long it drives me up the wall but ya just ta let you know ur not the only one and what really sucks is the time i do end up doing it for 2 to 3 hours and then it just turns into man i just dont want it anymore

Answer 7

Considering most guys orgasm in less than 20 minutes, you might have a problem..could be medical, talk to your doctor..don't always worry about the big 0 either..just enjoy the process..

Answer 8

That seems weird. You need to lay off for a while so your nerves can become sensitive again. Oddly enough my best friend, a guy has the same problem and I joked that it was probably the girl was a grand canyon. I guess I owe him an apology.

Answer 9

I understand that you are thinking of the girl here because she gets tired before you are finished...but frankly I thik it is awesome...definitely better than someone who is done is 5 min. I dont know try pleasuring yourself almost to the point of climax but not quite a lil b4 u encounter intercourse so you are closer to your breaking point when you start..see how that works..its an idea ne how

Answer 10

This may sound wrong but... have you been... cut? you know, cut. The foreskin? If not consult a doctor and it will change things around for you. If you have, the this is not "normal" albeit not necessarily bad. The greatest sex organ you (or anyone else) have is your mind. Use it!