that you were not stalking them. My ex girlfriend is convinced that I was parked outside her house. Not only that, she thinks that because i was at the same Hockey game as her that I have been stalking her. I am not crazy and i never parked in front of her house. If i was to do that i would be at her back window.. lol jk. The hockey game is a total coincidence. She now never wants to talk to me and wants me out of her life. This wouldnt be so bad if i didnt have strong feelings for her. I tried to explain that Im not like that (and she should know that) but refuses to believe me or even listen to me. What can i do? Is any hope of ever talking to her again gone? please help. I wouldnt really care if i didnt care about her. Her family is amazing and I always had a good time hanging out with her (even after we broke up as friends.) this sucks and i am really depressed. what should i do?
2007-03-27 04:20:09 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
why would you want to go back with someone who doesn't want to trust you or believe you?
2007-03-27 04:41:00 · answer #1 · answered by paha4u 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be best to give her space. I know it hurts when a relationship ends, but if it's over, it's over. If she already thinks that you are stalking her and you persist in proving to her that you are not stalking her, then you are still have unwelcomed contact with her which may result in her pursuing criminal charges against you. Walk away and charge this one to the game. Savor your memories but allow yourself to become involved in other things and other people so you don't mope around thinking about her all the time. She's just a woman...just like you're just a man. Let go and move on.
2007-03-27 11:26:58 · answer #2 · answered by intentionalmasterpiece 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmm...that's tough. Maybe you should just giver her some time. I know it's hard & agonizing, but it may be the best thing to do. After a little while, if she hasn't started talking to you again, you could try to go back and talk to her (at school, or wherever you usually see her; if that's not an option, maybe try giving her a call). Just don't give up hope :)
2007-03-27 11:28:37 · answer #3 · answered by Faith P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I just got done dealing with the same situation, only she was convinced i was stalking her myspace page, and I showed up at the same goth bar i got kicked out of, but needed to talk to my singer that night, the same night she had plans to go with her new ***** buddy. I deleted her off my myspace page, along with any of her good friends. I deleted her phone number, I got a nasty message from her last night on myspace, and i just deleted it too... I have strong feelings for her but I don't need the drama. Take the drama out of your life and remove her from your's, your never going to be friends, as hard as that is to understand, its true.
2007-03-27 11:29:54 · answer #4 · answered by Deformation Age 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, you sound obsessed. That, more than anything else, may be why she doesnt believe you. Second, she has made it abundantly clear to you that she wants nothing to do with you. If I was you, Id honor her request, otherwise, she can and will get a restraining order against you and if you violate it, you go to jail.
2007-03-27 11:28:59 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
THE CHANCE OF TALKING TO HER IS PROBLEM GONE. DONT WASTE YOUR TIME ON HER. SHE DOENST WANT TO BE WITH YOU. THEN DONT STRESS. FIGURE OUT WHO YOU ARE. DONT LET HER MAKE YOU. MAKE YOUR SELF. YOU CANT LET SOMEONE TAKE YOUR JOY AWAY. YES YOU MAY HAVE FEELINGGOR HER BUT THERE PLEANTY OF OTHER WOMEN OUT THERE. IF SHE CANT TALK TO YOU THEN SHE REALLY WASNT YOUR FRIEND IN THE FIRST PLACE IF SHE THINKS YOUR STALKING HER.
2007-03-27 11:29:33 · answer #6 · answered by masterdloski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm do something amazing!
2007-03-27 11:23:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋