I've been going out with this girl for about 3 months now, but for the past month we haven't really seen each other. I'm at the point now where I feel that breaking up is really the only option, as we can't solve our differences. But because I don't ever get the chance to see her, I can't easily break up with her face-face, so should i just do it by phone? I know this is quite cruel, but i don't really have any other options. Thanks
2007-03-27 04:19:58 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
If I would you i would rather do it in person than phone.
Call her and set up a date when you can see her to let her know if for any reason that is not possible then do it over the phone, don't send her a text message call her and do it.
2007-03-27 04:29:21 · answer #1 · answered by Nena 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If that is the only way that you can break up with her, I think that is fine and not cruel at all. If you can't see her, breaking up via the phone is the next best option. I think it would only be cruel to break up over a text message or e-mail.
2007-03-27 04:24:18 · answer #2 · answered by Faith P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should not break up by phone. That would make you look stupid.
Option 1: Break up with her face to face
1: Practice what you are going to say to her in a mirror.
2: Take a deep breath.
3: Get it over with and break up.
Option 2: Forward this question to her ;-)
2007-03-27 04:27:17 · answer #3 · answered by lil genius 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Breaking up is cruel no matter how you do it, and somebody can always find a reason why you did it the wrong way. If you're separated by distance, breaking up by phone is the best.
2007-03-27 04:27:09 · answer #4 · answered by Aiden 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doing it on the phone, can't be more cruel than doing it face to face. it's not about where you say the words. it's about the words you say and how you deliver them :)
do it on the phone Man.. be gentle, and be rational. at least you don't want to lie to her. you want to let her know that it's over.
do it. I'm sure you'll do fine.
2007-03-27 04:26:22 · answer #5 · answered by Maximus 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Call her and ask her if you both can meet because you need to talk. By phone would be cruel.
2007-03-27 04:30:01 · answer #6 · answered by pictureshygirl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't see why not! Breaking up face to face can sometimes create more drama. If you feel that you must break up with her, go ahead.
2007-03-27 04:26:11 · answer #7 · answered by Victoria78 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Avoid phone breakups... trust me on that one, they suck. Face to face is the better option... only do it by phone if you really have no other choice.
2007-03-27 04:24:44 · answer #8 · answered by Antoine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU OWE HER MORE THAN THAT. I KNOW YOU WOULD NOT WANT SOME ONE TO BREAK UP WITH YOU OVER THE PHONE. IF YOU CANT SAY IT WRITE IT. YOUR BEST THING TO DO IS SAY IT FACE TO FACE. JUST SAY. RIGHT NOW I DONT FEEL LIKE ITS WORKING OUT BETWEEN US. IM SORRY BUT IHAVE TO LOOK OUT FOR MYSELF. AN I SAY I WISH YOU THE BEST OF LUCK
2007-03-27 04:25:51 · answer #9 · answered by masterdloski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok so you can go see her find a way, breaking up by phone isnt really an option. its so mean. dont be a coward
2007-03-27 04:25:36 · answer #10 · answered by pheonix 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋