she told me on the phone that when she was here she could help me with things that I still needed to do for the wedding. I don't mind her helping out but I wondering what do I have her help me with so close to the wedding?
2007-03-27 04:16:05 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
maybe make sure people arrive to dinners and rehearsals on time?? help you not forget anything. last minute errands?
2007-03-27 04:21:57 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Use your soon to be mother in law as a de-stresser. Here are some things that need to get done that you shouldn't have to take care of: Checking all the groom/groomsmen to make sure their clothing and flowers are correct before the ceremony. Making a list of photographs her side of the family wants the photographer to take. Hold checks for any vendors and pay them for you. Arrange for gifts to be taken back to your home after the wedding. Arrange for all your getting ready supplies (makeup, clothes) to be cleaned up and delivered back home. If she can't help with some of these things because she is from out of town, pair her up with a friend that has a car to help her. She will be busy, feel use-full and be out of your hair.
Good Luck!
-Wedding photographer
2007-03-27 04:30:03 · answer #2 · answered by tracelightly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are so many last minute details that need to be attended to in the week before your wedding. It can be frustrating and you may feel like you have not planned well because you have so many lingering details but it is important to remember that many of these details need to be completed at the last minute. If you have a friend or family member (in this case your mother-in-law) who has been offering to help you, now is the time to take them up on their offer and give them a few tasks to complete.
Congratulations.
2007-03-31 04:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Swami Ibme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There will be so many last minute things to do, it won't even be funny. You'll have run out of hairspray, and need another bottle, or you need some clear nail polish in case someone at the wedding gets a run in her hose. SOMEONE'S got to run up to WalMart and get stuff like that, you'll be going insane, so won't it be nice to have an extra pair of hands that can run errands like that? Maybe you could even set aside something such as writing out the place cards for her to do.
She can call the vendors and confirm times with them for the reception. Trust me, you'll find stuff for her to do. I think it's great she's willing to help out like this.
2007-03-27 04:28:54 · answer #4 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well maybe she just would like to feel apart of the wedding. Afterall, your going to offically be apart of her family. Let her just be there for support. You never know those last 2-3 days are sometimes crucial and she may remember somethings that may have been left out or maybe need to be reminded....
Best wishes*******
2007-03-27 06:02:41 · answer #5 · answered by Yvette D 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The extra things you won't have time to deal with having to manage other important details for the wedding like making sure you got your dress together, hair appointment, and managing your bridal party. It's cheaper than having a wedding coordinator doing it for you.
2007-03-27 04:31:34 · answer #6 · answered by nabdullah2001 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if your sister or the maid of honor threw a marriage bathe they dont invite human beings they simply understand they invite all and sundry that the bride and groom is conscious. Throwing a shower you will desire to invite all and sundry that is conscious the bride or groom. Its a shower and the factor of this bathe is for the marriage couple to get presents to help them out of their destiny, so extra human beings coming the extra advantageous the out come would be. you will desire to have a joint wedding ceremony bathe with grooms mom. it's going to be a stable time for the two aspects of the family contributors to occasion and celerbrate this adventure. If the mummy doesnt want to and needs to have her own, than purely invite human beings from the brides area.
2016-11-23 19:09:56 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Anything you can!! This is time to get to know her better. You may never be best friends, but to include her would mean acceptance...Have her help with Seating arrangements. She knows her side of family better than you do. Will know who should sit with who. Include her if you go to a final fitting for dress...she sounds awesome if she even volunteered to help.
Brightest Blessings on your Day!
2007-03-27 04:28:51 · answer #8 · answered by brigid1103 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Any last-minute favors that need to be made? Dresses to be dropped off/picked up from the cleaners? Decorating in the reception site/church? Do you have bubbles...perhaps get her to tie ribbons around the bubble bottles? Fold the programs?
2007-03-27 04:52:20 · answer #9 · answered by Pink Denial 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are going to need all the help you can get. Believe me, that things will show up that need to be done that you never expected! Welcome and accept all the help that people are going to be offered! You are the bride so you are to relax and let everyone else help you out!
2007-03-27 09:52:30 · answer #10 · answered by KDW25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Pick up the flowers
Distribute the boutoniers to the grooms party
Distribute bouquets for BM
Drive you or the bridesmaids to the beauty salon
2007-03-27 04:50:03 · answer #11 · answered by Blunt 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋