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I am 23. My boyfriend "Chad" is 33. We are very compatible, want the same things out of life & have already predicted that we will be together for the long haul. However, he's never said the L word. And I'm not sure how long I should wait. I've already said it (sort of), & never again because I felt rejected by his unreciprication.
We've been together 8 months. I have a 3 year old son, - my boyfriend adores him, & treats him like his own kid. I was engaged to my son's dad, and was verbally abused. We ended badly. My boyfriend is divorced, his wife cheated on him & they divorced two years ago after 4 years of marriage. I realize he may have some hesitation about being with someone after going through something like that. But I find it difficult to be with him, have sex, live in his house, cook meals, do laundry, etc - having not heard that yet. It just doesn't make sense.
I don't want to be impatient, but I don't want to get hurt. How long should I wait?
2007-03-27 04:14:27 · 5 answers · asked by chaotic_mum 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When the time is right, you'll automatically know...Love takes time but it has no "concept" of time...Good luck
2007-03-28 05:21:48 · answer #1 · answered by IB_08 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Doe Boy Fresh
2007-03-27 10:37:32 · answer #2 · answered by A - Riv 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he loved you he would say it, you say he likes oral stimulation an another answer , perhaps thats why he stays around ...for now !
Bringing up someone elses kid is always hard too !
2007-03-27 04:53:21 · answer #3 · answered by Tom 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
there is no rush you are still very young , as you have a child together i am surprised it has not been forthcoming !
Say it again while looking into his eyes...Good luck !
2007-03-27 04:43:20 · answer #4 · answered by Tez 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hmmm...... when you think that you are ready to say it, i think you should.
2007-03-27 04:18:25 · answer #5 · answered by .lyssa<3 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋