What should I do if my girlfriend thinks the relationship is getting boring and she doesn't love me like b4

Question

She says the relationship is getting boring and she also says that she doesn't feel like she loves me like she did before. We've been going out for 6 months on friday. She says that she isn't fallen in love with me anymore. I need help. What should I do to get that back?

She says the relationship is getting boring and she also says that she doesn't feel like she loves me like she did before. We've been going out for 6 months on friday. She says that she isn't fallen in love with me anymore. but she says she does still love me, just not the same way. I need help. What should I do to get that back?
By the way, we aren't sexually active if it helps.

Answer 1

Give her time. There's probably nothing you can do right now. Either she will come back to you after that or maybe your time has gone. Just give her some space, she will love the fact that you respect her.

Answer 2

Sexually active has absolutely nothing to do with " True Love ". A going steady thing can and will go boring if not enough affection is being put out, not necking, just plain little looks, holding hands, doing little things to get her to smile, it is all part of expressing your true inner feelings. If you don't, you will fall flat, and that hurts, especially if you deeply care. Get out there and really show her that it's how you feel about her, maybe even some flowers, nothing fancy, just thoughtful with a short, cute note. Good Luck and God Bless !!

Answer 3

In 6 months time, you and your girl should be enjoying the relationship. The only advice I have is that relationships are about "keeping it new" , cause if it ain't new it's through. Go out and try new things, go new places, relationships aren't boring, marriage is boring. If there is anytime to save the relationship now is the time to do it, because if there another guy, you better believe he doesn't know about you! Learn from this experience because everyone goes through it. Live and learn my friend.

Answer 4

Well if she doesn't "feel" she loves you, she never really loved you in the first place. Once you love someone, you always do. Love isn't just a feeling...it's more than that. You may not always "feel" like you're in love, but that doesn't matter. Sure you will "feel" it most of the time, but you have to be careful to make sure that what you're feeling is love. What matters is that you ARE in the love. Sometimes I get mad at my bf, and I don't "feel" like he loves me or I don't "feel" in love, but I know that I really do. Love is a choice, a way of life, not a feeling.

To help with your problem, if you are able to, maybe you could suprise her. Surprise her with flowers or candy...take her on a walk some place special (like a park or beach), lay on a blanket and stargaze together...make her dinner... Something special like that just to let her know that you love her and care for her.

Answer 5

i know how this is so just do somthing fun and exciting with her like go up in the woods and sleep in the back of a truck.looking at the stars or the other thing thats fun is going and getting drunk you'll have fun then

Answer 6

Sounds like she's found someone else..you need to do the same before you hurt yourself deeper :)

Answer 7

She was never in love to begin with and neither were you....its only been 6mths, if it fizzled out in 6 mths she did you a favor, move on.........

Answer 8

move on... you deserve someone better...

Answer 9

read about tantric sex.

Answer 10

you search someoneelse......!