ok, so this boy and i have been talking for a while now and we planned on going out (keep in mind were only 16) but then he psyched himself out cause he had this huge thing planned for my birthday but a girl we know ruined it and then he got scared to ask. but i really like him and think that i could possibly be in love cause i feel different about him than any of my other boyfriends. a bunch of my friends told me to ask him out and one of his good friends (also one of mine) told me that wasnt such a good idea. so im really confused about what to do anymore. cause we basically have everything but the title and we spend a LOT of time together and everyone always commenting about us doesnt help my situation. please give me some outside views on the situation.
2007-03-27 04:07:35 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
yeah some guys get scared to ask girls out mainly cause they would be upset if they got rejected, i was like that in school.
If you really like him just ask him out that would be great and if you already hang out all the time, you probably know what kind of person he is.I really regret not asking out this girl when i was at school, sometimes i even think about her to this day. lol. If you feel comfortable enough just ask him and if he says no, he's either too scared or one silly boy. lol. well good luck have fun with the dating : )
2007-03-27 04:28:15 · answer #1 · answered by nightdreamer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should slow your role. Keep in mind that you're 16 and know absolutely nothing about love. Go out with your girlfriends and focus on school. Sooner or later and the older you get, you will see that almost very guy friend you have, you'll feel different about. Just be thankful he's not trying to take you fast and have sex with you. If a guy try to have sex with you at your age, they care nothing about you but your body. The older you get, the more you will realize that. If a guy really likes you, you'll never have to run up behind them anyway.
2007-03-27 11:17:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would kidnap him for a day, Sat., and the two of you go hiking or to the lake (4-wheeling would be great) and just talk....have a good time and keep it light. not too much relationship talk...if he can have a good time with you like this, it will be easier for him to visualize spending more time with you, regardless of the friends. if you do bring up the relationship, the only thing i would let him know is that you had a fantastic time with him and would like to do it again sometime. ask him if he thinks it would be easier on both of you (initially in the relationship) if you keep your (the two of you) comings and goings between the two of you and keep the so-called friends out of it. can you truely get to know each other with all these outside forces sticking their noses into everything? good luck, sounds promising...
2007-03-27 11:16:33 · answer #3 · answered by in2one 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I like it when a girl takes the initiative and asks me out. I think many guys do. And it sounds like you two are both interested in a relationship, so I would say go ahead and ask him out. It seems to me like he will say yes. However, don't rush headlong into this "love" business. While your feelings may be stronger for this boy than any others, it may be the excitement of a new relationship that is clouding your feelings. Ask him out, date for a while and then, once you learn more about each other, you will be able to better determine if you are truly in love.
2007-03-27 11:15:04 · answer #4 · answered by brainzilla420 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well could it be that this mutual friend has feelings for you? Because if he did, then of course he would try to get you guys not to go out. It sounds like you guys are already pretty close...so why don't you try talking to him. Or hint at him that you like him and want to be more than friends. Or that you would like a title. Good luck =]
2007-03-27 11:12:01 · answer #5 · answered by Julie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if his friend said not too then i would listen because im sure hes said something to his friend about it just hold on and keep being together and when hes ready and the time is right hell ask
2007-03-27 11:15:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i reckon u should tell him how u feel, tell him u know about ur suprise thingy nd u apprieciate it but u dont give a dam how he asks u out weva its on da eiffel tower of in a pig sti u wouldnt care , u just wanna be wiv him and thats all that matters (super romantic!!!) and then if ur really daring finish up with a kiss (doesnt have to be french but thats best)
thats wat i did i was well depressed cos i was in love wid my ex so i told him "i have summat 2 tell u, just cos its valentines day...i think i love u" then i kissed him and because i was sure he like me before hand, it worked out!!! GO ME!! lol
give it a try!
2007-03-27 11:18:28 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just let thing move along at his pace.Men are actually timid creatures in relationships.
2007-03-27 11:10:55 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph no offense but keep in mind you are way too young trying to date
2007-03-27 11:10:51 · answer #9 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Talk to him about where you guys stand relationship wise, youll clear some things up.
2007-03-27 11:10:26 · answer #10 · answered by boricua_chick_21 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋