okay there's this guy I like quite a bit...
but the thing is I'm 13 and he's 15 :^(
we both like eachother but I'm starting to think I should move on...Any advice?
2007-03-27 04:00:25 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well he never pressures me to do anything he's really nice and honestly kinda cute lol I've just heard alot of critisism is all
2007-03-27 04:15:53 · update #1
Move on? YES! As in yes, I mean for you to move on from worrying about boys at 13, to worrying more about your education. Don't try to grow up so fast.....as, you'll regret it when you're older.
2007-03-27 04:06:51 · answer #1 · answered by sassysusie 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
13 and 15 is not that big of an age difference, especially if you both like each other. Is there a reason you think you should move on? Just make sure he doesn't pressure you into doing anything you don't want to do and aren't ready for. There are plenty of fish in the sea and you have plenty of time to find a great guy for you!
2007-03-27 11:06:09 · answer #2 · answered by fleurhelp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well just to let you know I have a girlfriend that is 14 and I'm going on 16 on April second. Well not much a difference is it? Well if you really like this guy I would go for it. And if you feel like its not right you can move on but if you really like him then I would go for it. Its my honest opinion!! At least you don't have a girlfriend that live 4 hours away from you like I do it sucks and most people don't believe in long distance relationships they are really hard which it is but I think I don't have to get into that. But I would suggest you to try and if it don't work out then move on!!! Good luck!! Love happens for a reason!!!
2007-03-27 11:09:20 · answer #3 · answered by Christian G 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you both like each other then I don't see what the problem is. Age is just a number. Plus, there is only two years between you, and that may seem like a lot at your age, but it really isn't. There are so many couples out in the world that have a lot bigger age gap than you two do. My aunt and uncle are 11 years apart, and nobody says anything about that. Age really should mean anything in a relationship, so just don't think about it.
2007-03-27 11:05:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not a big age gap, but I'm going to ask you some questions- do you have goals in life? Like what do you want for a career? Do you want to go to college?
If you think that it is too early to think about THESE things, then it is WAY to early to worry about how long a relationship is going to last. I like the response that said boys will always be there- they will!
And if you do want to go to college and begin a career, then how is that boy going to help you get there? Don't you think HE will be focused on what he wants to do with his life? Not just this particular boy, but any boy! And vice versa- if he has goals for his life, how can you help him reach those goals?
Please make your education your first priority- maybe you already do-if so, then good for you! If it is meant to be, then it will work out.
(Yes, your parents are correct when they say this!)
2007-03-27 11:21:33 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if you like each other then talk to him see how he feels. Two years can be a big difference but if you have the same interest then it can be ok. You are only 13 enjoy your youth don't stress to much over boys trust me they will always be there and it takes them a long time to grow up!
2007-03-27 11:05:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are to young but if you like him and he likes you and you are sure of your feeling and what your doing then i would say good luck but be sure before you do something wrong because you say it yourself you are starting to think that you should move on so dont do anything if you are not sure ok.Dont care about what people say behind your back because is your life and nobody can mess in your life.Is your life and you know what to do whit your life so if people start talking about you and him just ignore them ok. Good luck.
2007-03-27 11:18:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
15 an 13 arent that far apart. if hes trying to pressure you into doing things that you dont wanna do then you should move on.
2007-03-27 11:10:24 · answer #8 · answered by masterdloski 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. Older is 15!!!!
Move on from what? It sounds like nothing ever started. I can't tell you not to "date", but there are so many other things you can be focused on.
I assume its Spring Break at your middle school.
2007-03-27 11:04:12 · answer #9 · answered by Bathroom Graffiti 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
go out with him. its only 2 year difference. thats not bad. u both like each other then u two should really date no matter the age. my opinion, age is just a number. i'm 19 and my bf is 25. doesn't really matter. go out with him.
2007-03-27 11:11:26 · answer #10 · answered by eminemychicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋