I was in a loving relationship with a great man. His sister didn't like me at all. His friends acted like they did. His sister got him to go out with a girl behind my back. I just recently (last night) found all this out. He still loves me and I still love him. Now I will admit that I had gotten drunk one night and kissed another woman. I told him about it the very next day on the phone and he said he would forgive me. That weekend he was supposed to come get me so we could spend time together, he didn't. His sister called on his cell phone for him and ended our relationship because he didn't want to hurt my feelings. I love him still and the girl he cheated on me with for 6 months is now my best friend. Should I give him another chance?
2007-03-27 03:56:19 · 16 answers · asked by xyoursxforxeverx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
First off I'm 19. I live on my own with my 23 year old sister. We like to party and have a good time. As for me kissing girls, big deal; I'm bi. I was in a loving relationship with a great man. His sister didn't like me at all. His friends acted like they did. His sister got him to go out with a girl behind my back. I just recently (last night) found all this out. He still loves me and I still love him. Now I will admit that I had gotten drunk one night and kissed another woman. I told him about it the very next day on the phone and he said he would forgive me. That weekend he was supposed to come get me so we could spend time together, he didn't. His sister called on his cell phone for him and ended our relationship because he didn't want to hurt my feelings. I love him still and the girl he cheated on me with for 6 months is now my best friend. Should I give him another chance?
2007-03-27 04:09:47 · update #1
Hell no!! Plus he didn't even have the balls to break up with you to your face he had his sister do it, thats just sad. He needs to grow up and you can do better!
2007-03-27 03:59:46 · answer #1 · answered by NY Yanks Girrl 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I apologise but this should be the easiest question you should be able to answer on your own. First of all, if this guy cared anything about you, his sister or no one else should of been able to make him cheat or break up with you. He just wasn't man enough to tell you that he wanted a taste of your closest associate(she's not your best friend because a friend would've never done that). If you go back with this guy you will appear to be desperate. People only do to you what you let them. What happens the next time his sister get him to cheat? Are you going to ask us again if you should give him a third chance? Move on and wait for a guy and a best friend that will appreciate and respect you. He's not worth it if he has is sister to do his dirty work anyway. It seems to me that he has some self issues that he needs to work on. Consider this as a lesson learned and move on.
2007-03-27 11:10:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hell no u don't take him back move on and forget him. don't make the same mistake i did. i took my bf back when he cheated on me and got another girl pregnant and now i'm having a hard time leaving him b/c he doesn't want to let me go. Please don't take him back u will only get hurt more if u do. if u take him back now then he will think that he can do it everytime and that u will take him back everytime. do ur self a favor and forget him. move on and find some guy who likes u for u and doesn't want anyone else but u. remember once a cheater always a cheater. also there is more fish in the sea just waiting for a girl like u to catch them. trust me its not worth getting hurt over again. also find a new best friend b/c if she was really ur friend she wouldn't of slep with ur man. good luck
2007-03-27 11:13:27 · answer #3 · answered by biggest_duke_fan_ever@yahoo.com 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, are your reading from a script? How could someone with the sweet face of a 12 year old have this much adult drama in her life? Please consider yourself first. His forgiveness is secondary here. What concerns me is the fact that you are drinking, kissing women, and even considering going back to someone[how old?] who had his sister[HUH?] break up with you on a cell phone!! Give yourself a chance to grow up and don't give this guy another chance of a second glance. Have you looked to see how lovely you really are and discovered how much you have to offer? Don't settle for so little in life.
2007-03-27 11:07:34 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know you love him and it's hard just thinking about being without him, but you should move on. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Did he even say he was sorry for cheating on you? You deserve better than to be cheated on for six months and there's nothing saying that he wouldn't do it again. If he asks for another chance, tell him why you just can't give him another chance; it's hard to be in a good relationship when you can't trust your bf/gf. Find someone that will love you and would never even think about cheating on you. Good luck!
2007-03-27 11:05:49 · answer #5 · answered by Faith P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have some serious self esteem issues.You are best friends with the girl that your boyfriend cheated on you with??Girl what are you thinking..And why would you want to get back together with a guy that cheated on you.You should have more respect for yourself people that are truely in love do not cheat.In answer to your question NO you should not give him another chance.Once a cheat ALWAYS a cheat.If you get back together with him you are just asking to be hurt.
2007-03-27 11:03:13 · answer #6 · answered by Maureen B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No I am afraid it is time to move on. He is not ready for a real relationship if his sister does his breaking up for him. He sounds like he never left the middle school. Go out and enjoy yourself, your young and don't need the drama.
2007-03-27 11:18:34 · answer #7 · answered by bvtc6677 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No you definately shouldnt. He cheated on you, you cheated on him. His sister doesnt like you and he was so weak he didnt even stick up for you. And its just wierd that she is now your best friend. He isnt strong enough to break up with you himself, its an empty relationship. End it now.
2007-03-27 11:04:41 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No you shouldn't give him another chance. Girl you are too beautiful! I know you love him but obviously he doesnt love you because if he did then he wouldnt have cheated.
2007-03-27 11:01:04 · answer #9 · answered by LALALALAM 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He will break your heart again!!I was in a similar well am in a similar situation! end it now before it gets worse!trust me...i know you still won't listen though!But if you don't want to get hurt again just be Strong & end it~GOOD LUCK
2007-03-27 11:00:35 · answer #10 · answered by liza 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋