my mom really doesnt like the fact that im lesbian but she deals with it but its like when me and my girl want to do something she is like hell no what do i do
2007-03-27 03:55:02 · 9 answers · asked by Allison S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
did you come out recently. give time to your mom to adjust to the idea that you are a lesbian and that you have a girlfriend. Talk to her and give her a chance so that she can get to know your gf.
2007-03-27 03:58:47 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, maybe try and sit down with you Mum + discuss it calmly.
If your Mum is a very outspoken person then simply say:
"Look Mum, I know it's been hard for you to deal with me being a lesbian, but at the end of the day, you're going to have to deal with it, and I also don't appreciate the way you treat my girlfriend. What's bothering you about it so much?"
Maybe that will help.
Good luck.
+ I shake your hand at having the courage on telling your Mum your a lesbian, Im bisexual and I cant tell me Mum
xxxx
2007-03-27 03:59:55 · answer #2 · answered by Samie F 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your mom loves you, and because of that she will accept the fact of who you are in time. BUT you can't make her to like any one. It's her right as a person.
Don't force anything on to her either.
Your mom had a dream for you as most all mothers do. To see their baby girls grow up and walk down the isle. There's nothing wrong with who you are or your life style, but give your mom the time she needs to understand that it's your life, and you'll live it the way you want too.
I have to ask, you said she won't let you do any thing with her? I'm safe to assume that you're under age?
Just go easy on her.... it's hard on her too.
The time will come when she'll be able to sit back and say it's ok with who you are. BUT you need to give it that time first.
good luck~
2007-03-27 04:06:03 · answer #3 · answered by Loveable 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's probably going to be like that with any girl that you date. My sister-in-law is a lesbian and her Mom is the same way, she makes it clear that her girlfriends are not welcome in her house, and she always finds something wrong with them. I'm not sure how you can resolve this, it's been years and my sister-in-law and her Mom still haven't come to any agreement on this. Just be who you are, choose people you can have healthy relationships with, and hopefully your Mom will come around. Good Luck.
2007-03-27 03:59:33 · answer #4 · answered by nimo22 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur mom probably doesnt like ur girl friend cause she might not now alot of things about her yet so give it a while or talk to ur mom about that or get ur girl friend to talk to ur mom about this make ur mom gain her trust does ur girl friend look like a bad influence write back and tell me more about this.
2007-03-27 04:09:02 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hmph to be honest you can not make anyone do anything they don't want to regardless of the situation but just let everything run its own course
2007-03-27 03:58:18 · answer #6 · answered by spiritualism0 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You should learn to write questions that make sense.
2007-03-27 03:58:08 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
your age would help us give you an appropriate answer.
2007-03-27 03:58:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
stop being a homo
2007-03-27 03:57:57 · answer #9 · answered by moderatorsarestupidprix 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋