Take into concideration that I do not have the time or money to up and move. I moved out here to TX with my estranged father who I hadn't seen since 7 yrs. to get to know him. No one mentioned that his wife and his mother in law (who he lives with) are emotionally unstable, rude and lazy though. What should I do?
2007-03-27 03:49:05 · 9 answers · asked by monica7786 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
You're not going to change them. Best thing is for you to find the time and money somehow, and move away. Or ask your own Mom to take you back with her.
Maybe you've learned why your Mom and Dad aren't together any more.
2007-03-27 04:02:21 · answer #1 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, if you don't have the time or money to move, then there's not much you can do but tolerate it until you are in a situation where you can distance yourself from them some. I would work extra hours and do all that you can to earn enough money to move - it will help you solve your living situation, and give you an understandable excuse not to spend more time with these people than necessary. This will be a lesson to get to know your family member BEFORE you move a long distance into a situation with them, with no help or option out! Lol* Everyone goofs up, just keep your chin up and do your best. :)
2007-03-27 05:59:38 · answer #2 · answered by quilt_mommy_2001 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-05 17:36:50 · answer #3 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You moved in with them? Then you are a guest.
Is it possible they think that youve over stayed your welcome? You didnt mention how old you are so Im only guessing here.
Youre just going to have to get out of there.
Look for a better job.
Good luck, doesnt sound like fun.
2007-03-27 04:07:05 · answer #4 · answered by Peg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be independent. That's what I did when I was in a similarly position. My ex boyfriend belongs to this cathegory of persons. If u can't stand them anymore, u simply dump them!Good luck! I'm on ur side:))
2007-03-27 06:09:32 · answer #5 · answered by persephona 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you can't change the wife or mother in law... if they are rude and lazy, and crazy they have probably become comfortable with it!
the best thing you can do is to take care of YOU... if the wife and mother in law won't help themselves, no one ever will.
hugz.
2007-03-27 04:14:28 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
move out or tell your mom or who ever you live with to get off there lazies asses and work. and also tell them that it's good for you too sit around they'll get fat.!!
love
Jessi
2007-03-27 03:53:54 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
focus ur energy on leaving. ur not going to be able to change anyone. u may not be able to just up and leave, but u cant stay there forever, so start working on it
2007-03-27 03:54:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
smack them around
2007-03-27 05:54:12 · answer #9 · answered by georgewallace78 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋