Me and my boyfriend broke up a few months ago because my parents don't like him and he says it won't work out and he doesn't want to be where he isn't wanted. We are both in our mid 20's. The problem is: our feeling haven't changed for each other, we are still intimate and talk for hours everyday but I'm starting to want more. I miss him so much that it hurts. He says that he doesn't have a problem with us hanging out but if we do that then we shouldn't sleep together because it's going to make things crazy emotionally for both of us. I just don't know what to do. At this point I'm wondering if we should have a serious talk about getting back together or if we should cut off communication all together. He still says he loves me and feels the same way about me but he isn't focused on a relationship because he already knows that it won't work out
2007-03-27 03:48:02 · 9 answers · asked by 3262m 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if your a grown adult then why are your parents still picking your friends? if you love each other then be together.
2007-03-27 03:53:51 · answer #1 · answered by tire chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm having the same problem right now. (Except the sleeping together part.) But, my boyfriend is cheating on me with an 18 year old. (im 15 and he is 17.) He only wants her to get in her pants. My mom doesn't want me talking to him but I can't help it. I feel so empty without him. I think you guys should talk it through and try to get back together.
2007-03-27 03:54:36 · answer #2 · answered by I need him ♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think its a very noble thing he is doing. But I think the people you need to talk to is your parents not him. Especially in your mid 20s. They need to understand that if they love you, they need to love your boyfriend no matter who it is. And that they are just making you unhappy.
Once you get your parents acceptance, you can work on your relatinoship with your boyfriend.
2007-03-27 03:52:42 · answer #3 · answered by Zenthae 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I say work it out..be together..if everyone listened to their parents about not liking their bf's or gf's who would be together..you didnt say if your parents have valid concerns or not..if he is good to you and you obviously love him go for it!!but if their are valid concerns about him then..think it over.like is he a good person,stable,treats u right..then go for it..you two are old enough to make decisions about who you should or should not be with..Tell him you love him and hate to be without him and you two can find ways to be together anyway.
2007-03-27 03:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by ccrazeegyrl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to him about you two getting back together...if you two still feel the same way that's really good..
2007-03-27 03:56:41 · answer #5 · answered by kikay_chick08 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are in your mid 20's, you can both make your own decisions, you're parents can't decide who you can and cant be with.
2007-03-27 03:58:12 · answer #6 · answered by ceroooss 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He sounds pretty mature. He's right, you know. If your parents don't like him, he's wise to get free.
Maybe you should think about letting go?
2007-03-27 03:53:30 · answer #7 · answered by kiwi 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the only answer is a romeo and juliet style end. and dont feel too worried about it, nobody will miss you.
2007-03-27 03:52:11 · answer #8 · answered by moderatorsarestupidprix 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well if ur parents said that They might be havin a strong reason behind it.
but wat u can do is that talk to ur parents ....convince then
I believe u shud get back together
2007-03-27 03:52:05 · answer #9 · answered by Mellesa 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋