okay so i met this man(on-line) it got off to a slow start, because i wasn't sure if i wanted to meet him. Then we started talking and decided to meet. We hit it off, instant conection, 6 hour dinner date, we both were excited that we connected. We met again a few days later. It was so exciting and a little scarey at the same time. Okay so we decided to get together Friday night and everything was great, and then he said to me you are the "one" I am falling in love with you....freaked me right out 7 days in. The next day we spent all day together and made dinner together it was almost perfect, and he said he wanted a future with me, I felt I wanted to believe this was not just a game. In the pit of my stomach i had a feeling. So at 1:00am I left with little explanation, I "ran" not cause i didn't like him, just so much.The next day he accused me of "moving on"that must be the reason I left, I told him that i wanted to explain, he went back on dating site and haven't heard from him????
2007-03-27 03:41:59 · 7 answers · asked by sexandthecityaint got nothin!!!! 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Honestly, it does sound crazy and somewhat unbelievable. If the guy really did like you, shouldn't he tried to make sense of you suddenly leaving and tried to find you? I don't know, I'm no expert as this things but maybe he just said that because of the moment both of you were experienced. Like you said, it was almost perfect. If not that, maybe he wanted something from you.
2007-03-27 03:48:56 · answer #1 · answered by Jigs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This sounds a little odd. If it's only a short time and he just moves on when you felt a little "wow this is kinda fast", wouldn't this answer the question if this is somebody who can truly "commit", And not to say commit as in a lifetime but as in commit some amount of time to developing a relationship?
Maybe best you found out sooner than later.
2007-03-27 10:51:56 · answer #2 · answered by Denise D 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, you didnt need someone like that.
You dont even need a dumb dating site.
You dont have to go looking for love. Love will find you.
Dont worry.
And yes, it probably was a game.
And even if it wasnt, then theres something wrong with him.
You cant love someone that quickly and he' s probably just looking to jump into anything he can to feel companionship.
Some people just hate to be alone.
2007-03-27 10:49:00 · answer #3 · answered by Holly g 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that guy is crazy. WOW!! Let me rephrase that insane or he wanted something else
2007-03-27 10:50:17 · answer #4 · answered by NVYUS7 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesnt sound toto crazy but i think you should be careful in meeting a person when you chat online
it can be dangerous
2007-03-27 10:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by catrina a 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let him go. He just wants Somebody. You want someone to want You and no one else.
2007-03-27 10:47:26 · answer #6 · answered by bookfreak2day 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
love is wierd.. next time dont run.. conatct me if u like to chat???
2007-03-27 10:47:14 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋