Ok, my man always talks how he is going to just "give it to me good" and go into details about it and I am like oh yes and guess what? He goes to sleep.... What would you women out there do if your man talked sexual smack to you and didnt back up what he said??? instead he goes to sleep?? Let me know because I am courious
2007-03-27 03:38:47 · 26 answers · asked by lilshedevil 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
wake him up! lol
2007-03-27 03:41:44 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 1⤊ 2⤋
GIRL!! That's so hilarious bc my bf did that same thing to me last nite. I asked for some before he had to go out and take care of business. Well he says he's gonna "smoke" me and blada blada bla. I'm like "YEAH, tha's what's up!" So he leaves at nearly 11:00p.m. and I'm expecting him back no later than an hour. Guess what? 10 after 8:00 THIS MORNING his azz comes through the door. Talk about a hellraiser without the pins, huh? By the end of the argument he's apologizing to me. So.....yeah, I feel exactly what you're saying. That's too funny. Hopefully tonite will be different. lol
2007-03-27 10:46:22 · answer #2 · answered by Just get it over with already!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well, I actually dated a guy with the same bad habit. Anyway, tell your man what is his reason of dirty-talking to you. If he's going to dirt-talk as part of foreplay, then he should get a shot of some energy drink so he wouldn't sleep on you. Just don't discuss that to him while in the company of other people because men will not open up on that kind of discussion especially in the presence of friends.
2007-03-27 10:59:51 · answer #3 · answered by Mary Josette 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be straight up and honest with him. I had a man like that and I told him Talk is cheap you talk all that chit show me and let me be the judge. Only difference is my man didnt fall asleep he considered it a challenge and did what it took to satisfy me. Let me tell ya that he did just that. If your man falls to sleep there are ways to wake him up. Get on top and act like you trying to take it while hes sleep. Hell be up and at attention before you know it and thats when the good sex begins since hes had his little power nap.
2007-03-27 10:51:14 · answer #4 · answered by meka g 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
girl, are you serious?! Well i know i would be pissed. you gonna work me up and than go to sleep! uh-uh boo boo... After he works you up, do you even try to initiate sex or, does he not give you the chance. If you haven't tried, than maybe you need to. Get him hot and bother and give him a reason to wanna keep his word. And if you already do this and he still doesn't come through than you need to be straight up with him and tell up whats on you mind. cause you keep letting it slide its just gonna lead to more problems...due to the build up of one problem. tell him he gonna have to do better.
2007-03-27 10:51:13 · answer #5 · answered by shell_4everme 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
damn girl that sux, he gets u all built up for nothing! well the next time he tries it just dont seem interested, and when he asks wats wrong or something say y should i get excited for u to fall asleep, let him feel a little bit of the burn. i thikn it just make wake him up!! in more ways than one, best wishes!
2007-03-27 10:41:56 · answer #6 · answered by rckstar88 2 · 4⤊ 0⤋
I'd respond with, "yeah, yeah....heard that one before." This could very well prompt him to deliver, rather than just talk about it.
After all, it's his male ego that's on the line, right?
2007-03-27 10:47:03 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Get over it obviously he is all talk and the next time i would turn the tables on him and talk chit to him heating him up and roll over and go to sleep my self
2007-03-27 10:43:44 · answer #8 · answered by Mary O 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I would prob wake him up and show him who is the wo(man)! Take control of your sex life. Show him who is the boss. Then when you give it to HIM good, Tell him...."That's the way you lay it down baby!"
2007-03-27 10:45:19 · answer #9 · answered by asweetreat 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if hes talking sexually then i would wait untill he is properly asleep and jump on him then tell him to stick to his words you wont do anymore sexual things to him he will soon learn that your talking serious talk and he will then do what has siad he would do. i hope i have helped you in your problem.
2007-03-27 10:44:16 · answer #10 · answered by Leonie B 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
give him a taste of his own medicine
get him all hot and bothered and then leave to go run a few errands
Or leave him hanging (actually the opposite) and go to bed.
Or wake him up and tell him you are cashing in your coupon and wont take a rain check.
2007-03-27 10:43:38 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋