I came out of an 8year relationship last year, didn't mean to but met a nice guy in December and started 'seeing him'- i know a little to quick..anyway we got on really well, had fun, not my usual type but nice guy, his family like me & got on with all his mates, but I just felt recently maybe the spark isn't there!!
3 weeks ago I decided to break things off, i just didn't feel like I needed a bf, so went out with the girls and met a very young 19 year old (i'm 25), we have met up for few dates, just having fun, sex is good and its not 2 serious, problem is the 1st guy has been intouch and really wants to give us another go, he is so sweet and I just don't know what to do..
2007-03-27 03:34:30 · 22 answers · asked by money bank 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
This is for the prat who called me a slag... That really is crap as I was with someone for 8years- never cheated..even though he was awful, within 6months slept with 2 people...that is not a slag!!!
2007-03-27 04:00:27 · update #1
well, move on i think..
2007-03-27 03:38:46 · answer #1 · answered by C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The questions to you would be what are you sure you are ready for when you know what you are ready for then you can go from there, so you have one guy in the air and one that you are dating, but it is not so serious, first thing is to be sure which one you have most in common with, one that treats you good, is not bossy and demanding. One that knows his limits what he can and can not do. Also conside which one you will have a better open mind with and one that will communicate the most, in any relationship communication is one of the key factors. Once you have figured this out and which guy it applies to then you have to let the other one go or become just friends with him. If you want to give the first guy another try that will be your call.
2007-03-27 03:47:21 · answer #2 · answered by gordonflames242003 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you are ready for a serious relationship at the moment. You want to have fun and theres absolutely nothing wrong with that. Save the serious stuff for another 5 years time. Enjoy your freedom. You don't love the other guy so it's not worth going back. Relationships can't survive without love no matter how sweet the guy is. If you are confused then it is not right to go back to him.
2007-03-27 03:46:50 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You aren't ready for another long term relationship yet, I would let it go with the first guy otherwise you might hurt him. I think you should continue to just have fun being single for a while. 8 years was a long time you need some time to get over that, its alright to have a few flings, you'll find the right 1 in the end :)
2007-03-27 03:44:15 · answer #4 · answered by agent flora 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds to me like you just need some time on your own. You came out of a long term relationship and got together with this guy. You decided you wanted some alone time so broke things off yet you've ended up with another guy! I have a friend like you and she just seems to go from one relationship to another because she's afraid of being alone but what she actually needs is some time alone, to have fun with her mates and work out what she wants! I think you need the same.
2007-03-27 03:45:08 · answer #5 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If it didn't feel right with the first guy then it wasn't. It's hard when there nice but you have to stick with your toy boy have all your fun. Your only 25 and if you've spent the last 8 years in relationships then you might need to let your hair down and just have fun. Good Luck.
2007-03-27 03:43:55 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to stop sleeping around. I think you are making a series of bad decisions that are hurting other people. At the age of 25 you should be thinking about settling down a bit more. I don't mean to say you shouldn't go out or have fun. Just not so much partying and sleeping around. I feel bad for the guy you left. You need to be stopped before you REALLY hurt someone who cares for you.
2007-03-27 03:40:32 · answer #7 · answered by Devdude 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think it depends on how ur feeling about this stud 19 yr. old. You ready for the fun to end yet? Or are you ready for the other guy, to be serious? If not, then simply tell him in the most polite way that you're not ready for a bf. No point in wasting time with someone who bores you, you know? Stick with the one that puts that spark in your life.
2007-03-27 03:40:39 · answer #8 · answered by Just get it over with already!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If the spark isn't there your probably wasting your time. Let him down easy. It sounds to me like maybe you just need to have fun right now, nothing serious. It happens to the best of us. When I was your age I went through the same phase. Maybe you could just talk to the guy and be honest. He sounds like a reasonable fellow. My oppinion is that you probably are not ready for a bf right now.
2007-03-27 03:43:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would drop the 19 year old - you'll be embarrased when you look back at the age difference.
Sounds to me like you just need to spend some time on your own being single - explain this to the alst bf......... if he is that keen you can always get back with him later, but you have just come out of a long term relationship and sounds to me like you need to 'find yourself' again!!
All the best,
Sophia x
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