wht do you think i should do ??? should i send them ?

Question

hi there, my ex gf who is a good friend now is preety upset cos her mum and step dad are on the verge of spilliting. She has been through this before when her mum and dad split. what should i do? do you think i should send some flowers to her house for her ? previously when we was togeather i only sent flowers after we argued and she said to me that i only send them when we argue!!! What can i do?

Answer 1

I think you'll be sending out mixed messages. Don't send her flowers but do take the time to talk to her, listen to her and maybe put in your 2 cents if she asks you. Show her your there for her- THAT'S WHAT A GOOD FRIEND WOULD DO.
:-)

Answer 2

What she needs right now is a true friend to listen to her and just be there for her! You can do that without sending flowers! Take her to lunch or go get her and just go for a walk! Spend some time with her and get her mind off things for a little while! She'll remember how great that made her feel long after the flowers would have died! If you want to get her a gift, get her a pretty journal or a book! She needs a friend right now and I think it's great that you want to do that for her! And if you really really want to give her flowers, TAKE her a yellow rose when you go see her....this symbolizes friendship!...attach the saying: "Friends are angels that lift us to our feet when our wings have trouble remembering how to fly!"

Answer 3

Well, since you're not arguing you can send them and not worry about her thinking that. She'd realize you did it just to do it out of kindness, not for forgiveness or sucking up :)

If you are her friend, then do it. Other things you can do for her, if you want to be there for her, is to let her know she can always call you if she needs a friend to lean on. Just knowing she has someone to lean on will make her feel a little better. Going through things alone and having no one to talk to about it makes it a lot harder

Also make sure you're not leading her on in any way if you were the one who broke up with her. If you did, and you have no intentions of getting back together with her, make sure you don't do anything to lead her to think you want to. She doesn't need any more confusion and heartbreak in her life.

Answer 4

I would send them, its a very sweet gesture at a hard time for her. Make her smile by putting something like 'see I can send flowers at other times, hope this cheers you up!' or something similar. I think its a lovely thing to do to let her know you're thinking of her, do it!!!! Good luck!

Answer 5

It would be a nice thing to do for her...IF sending them didn't have an ulterior motive. I notice your name...is it possible... If your sending them in the hopes that she'll come back to you, well that's pretty $hitty. You'd be sending them for you and not for her. If your sending them in the hope that it'll put a smile on her face, and to show her she's not alone, well then you would be sending them for her. You need to decide what the motivation is before you send them, she's going through a lousy time right now, and she needs a friend...not a suitor.

Answer 6

Send her flowers, but also say that if she needs to chat or just time away from things, that you will be there for her to talk to

Answer 7

send the flowers with a note saying that you are there if she needs a shoulder tom cry on

Answer 8

If i were you i would send her a bunch and have a nice note inside for her as you two are still good friends

Answer 9

try and talk to her, let her no that you are there for you, instead of sending flowers take them to her, show her your there when she needs you it's the best way. good luck xx.

Answer 10

1. Listen to the lady.
2. Its your funeral otherwise;
good lad, I see you've got some flowers for that.
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