my girlfriend seems not to care about herself and basically made herself a target for her older immature boyfriend. she learns that he has been cheating on her with another woman. while they were fighting he chokes her and slaps her. she still loves him and doesnt want to end it, though he has told her that there is no him and her and when she tells him that she wants to date other people since he feels that way, he's upset and doesnt want her to be involved with anyone and that he wants to work it out. is she wasting her time in a bad relationship or should she work it out if she loves being upset, pissed and hurt?
2007-03-27 02:34:04 · 9 answers · asked by Nicohle Jordi 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wow! What a mixed-up relationship! Your friend needs to:
A) End that abusive (mentally and physically) relationship ASAP and
B) Get counseling so she can discover
what causes her to be involved in such a negative situation. And, continued support so she doesn't slip back into that or any other similar relationship.
You sound like a good, caring friend whom she'll need to get through this.
2007-04-03 21:09:06 · answer #1 · answered by Adios 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She needs to get out before it's too late and if she doesn't that's where you as a friend need to jump in. Abusive relationships start out small it just gets worse over time~sometimes guys forget how strong they are and well you get the picture. If you catch him you need to call the cops, your friend might be a little heated for you doing so but later on she will really appreciate it. Tell her whats up,,,maybe just find her someone else to go out on date with.
2007-04-01 18:55:16 · answer #2 · answered by ~never again~ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not all older men are that way,
she needs to get away from this abuser and get a PFA and make out a police report and find herself a man that knows how to treat a lady with respect and kindness, not as a punching bag
2007-03-27 10:28:30 · answer #3 · answered by photog50 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's better for her to leave him instead of being attached to him like a fool .Why does she need him anyway, let her move on with her life.What I mean is dump that big loser and find another guy.
2007-04-04 09:42:09 · answer #4 · answered by Nada A 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your friend needs to make a complete break from this man older or not. it will be hard but worth it in the long run. she will end up a victim of domestic violence if she stays with him.
2007-04-04 08:13:11 · answer #5 · answered by fushia 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would hope that she's not that masochistic, and she walks away from this guy. He sounds like a loser. Tell her to drop the zero, and find a hero.
2007-04-03 17:53:36 · answer #6 · answered by sustasue 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she's wasting he time. if any man violates her in that way she shoul leave him. it couln escalate into something far worse.
2007-04-04 00:03:44 · answer #7 · answered by phoenixchi 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to tell your friend to "kick him to the curb!"
2007-04-04 09:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by almost_gone07 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's absurd!!!!very stupid. wasting you're time on the guy!!!!find a guy who can treat you nicely
2007-04-04 07:55:49 · answer #9 · answered by honey_106 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋