2007-03-27 02:16:31 · 9 answers · asked by Phillip 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Why are you making sweeping (and unkind!) generalizations about an entire group of women?
Maybe it's something you're putting out there, chief.
2007-03-27 02:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by kcbranaghsgirl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By the time that you are that age you have most like experienced basically everything. What I mean everything are the guys out there that like to play mind games, who think that they are players, who verbally or physically abuse, the guys that are doing nothing more than looking for a maid, or even another Mama.
By the time that women get to this age they have gone through all these type of guys. Women don't like be used or abused. By the time that most women have hit this age they are looking for a mate for life. It is a natural instinct. They want to get married and settled down but they have yet to find a man that doesn't cheat, steal, use, abuse, play mind games and so on. If you went through all of this with a girl, wouldn't you be a little bitter and distrusting of the next one that came along.
If you are truely wondering about this, first understand the bad taste that all of the previous men have left in the minds of these women. I know that there are good men out there but they are far and very, very few between. The majority of men out there are only after one thing and they don't think about the emotional hurt that they might cause because of their misleading.
That is the reason when I am dating someone new I ask them straight out. I tell them I can't stand liars or bull #@$! What are there intentions. If they are just wanting to get laid then tell me, don't mislead me into believing something that isn't true. I rather know where I stand in the beginning then find out in the end with the broken heart.
Believe it or not most guys will tell me the truth at this point. If they are just looking for someone to sleep with, they tell me, if there are not sure, but they know that they are intrested, they tell me. If they are looking for a possible girlfriend, they tell me. I have come to realize that if women would be more open and just cut to the line, most men will tell what their intentions are.
2007-03-27 02:36:20 · answer #2 · answered by pacifia1977 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it's wrong to stereotype any sort of woman like that. Sure, some of them may be like that. But I think some teenagers, 20 year olds, 30 year olds, 40 year olds and 50 years olds are like that too! And they're not all women.
People have different life experiences, it changes who they are. How they feel, how they react. How they TRUST!
Trust is the most important thing there. If a woman is pushing you away and acting spiteful. She's probably been seriously hurt by someone at some stage. Since you're asking this question, you more than likely care enough to help her. So, help her. Show her not all men are pigs, and that you can be trusted. Maybe by being a better man yourself, you can show her not all men are out there to hurt her.
Good luck. I hope this helps answer your question
2007-03-27 02:22:24 · answer #3 · answered by Ryuichi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
...cause they used to go out with twenty and thirty something year old close minded men possibly?....just kidding dude!.... C'mon now...not all women are spiteful and hurt and resentful ya know....some of them are gonna eventually be smitten with you though... LOL!! Lighten up partner...the sun comes up usually everyday for most people. So too will the woman of your honky dreams reasonably...if only you'd let them! Life is gonna be a frame of your own mind my friend. Try to paint a rosy picture for yourself in the process of this whole thing reasonably. You're responsible for your own personal satisfaction and dissatisfaction otherwise.....not all the women of the world quite honestly! Ask for what you want out of life dude...and then go out and get it for yourself seriously. Nobody's gonna hand it right over to you on a silver platter here otherwise. Are we clear on all of this satisfaction stuff my good man?
2007-03-27 02:30:23 · answer #4 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They must have been hurt. Usually that's why people get spiteful. I'm 30 ish but I love my man and have a mutual respect for anyone that treats me with respect!
2007-03-27 02:27:40 · answer #5 · answered by Rebecca A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My philosophy is they of course havent met the stunning guy or they could have been married, so maximum in line with possibility 10-15 years of relationship has left them no longer something yet disallusionment and the ten unusual years of their profession has probable left them in basic terms success and self-properly worth. in line with possibility they think of in the event that they enable their profession slide for some guy and then if it doesnt artwork out they have sacrificed the only gratifying element of their life that makes them sense self-properly worth and proud for something that gave them heart-ruin and disallusionment. in spite of if it does artwork out with a guy they might finally end up resenting the guy because of fact she omitted her profession for the guy however the guy didnt forget his. and then she feels in basic terms defined with the help of the relationship and not with the help of her skills and achievements in life. while a woman is in her 30s, she is familiar with what she needs in her life, in profession, in love, in intercourse and probable interior the destiny. they say the 30s is the ideal time in life because of fact long previous are all of the insecurities of life and the insecurites of previous age havent arrived yet. My suggestion is (in case you're a guy, i cant tell with the help of the question) to no longer handle that group of girls till you're severe approximately them and are arranged to make sacrifices your self. Or why no longer attempt relationship a youthful lady? i'm 24 and fortuitously married to a 41yr previous guy. Works great for us! :)
2016-10-20 13:06:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
They're probably really bitter. Maybe u remind them of someone that did them wrong
2007-03-27 02:21:13 · answer #7 · answered by *VS* 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because they've been jerked around too many times.
2007-03-27 02:20:18 · answer #8 · answered by LemmingPie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all of them
2007-03-27 02:22:26 · answer #9 · answered by Kimora Miranda 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋