Hi.. my boyfriend and i just broke up yesterday. We had some misunderstanding. and recently he's acting so strange. he's ignoring me,wont talk to me, wont answer my calls. yesterday we got the chance to talk about that. and all he say is that he need some space because things arent working right. and he even told me that he really dont know his feelings. because sometimes he felt that he loves me.. and there are times when he dont feel that. i love him and i agreed to broke up with him because that is his decision.. and i cant do nothing. i beg for a chance saying that i would change for better. the way he wants me to be. but he told me that he doesnt want a commitment right now. now..i dont know if i would wait for him to think about what he really feels about me or should i move on right away. but i really love him. and it hurts me so to think that were really through. today i have just received a msg. from him asking if we could be closed bestfriends.. would i accept his proposal?
2007-03-27 02:03:17 · 5 answers · asked by άЌίτά 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
A man who really cares for, and loves you, wouldn't dump you and risk the chance of having another man sleep with you. When a man stops taking your calls, starts acting strange, won't talk to you, etc., it means he really isn't interested in you, and has probably already found his next victim. Men who do that will often ask if you'll remain friends with them. They know you care for them and the 'friendship' will keep you hanging on. They don't want you to hang on to the hope of a relationship. They just want to take advantage of the fact that you'll continue to try to win him over and guarantee himself an easy to walk away from sex partner.
Move on. If you find it hard to forget him, spend more time working on your school work. Start off by taking a writing course.
2007-03-27 02:19:06 · answer #1 · answered by IAINTELLEN 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure it hurts but if he isn't in it don't waste your time trying to make him. Communication is key and I amglad you guys are somewhat doing it. What do you feel??? Do you think right now you want to be friends with him or do you need your space?? Maybe he'll realize he does want you if you give him the space maybe you will realize you don't want him??? Just try to see outside you two that there are other people out there and maybe you are better off friends??? Do what you think is right for you!!! Good luck :)
2007-03-27 09:17:17 · answer #2 · answered by css22 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes. he probably needs someone really bad rite now. you are the best person for him because he already trusts you enough to tell you everything. accept it!
2007-03-27 09:07:56 · answer #3 · answered by Brittany 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
more then likely it it is a move on, yet when he sees you are not their, he will more then likely come back with roses in hand.
2007-03-27 09:10:04 · answer #4 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you should, and if you really love him, your not going to move on that quick.. it will take time.
2007-03-27 09:06:34 · answer #5 · answered by Amber 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋