cheating G/F's?

Question

what are the typical signs of a long term g/f that is cheating.......

Answer 1

If she 'disappears' for hours at a time or seems to be busier than usual with no clear explanation is a dead give away...

1 - No longer want sex or makes excuses to not have sex.

2 - Will not allow you access to their computer or they suddenly shut down the computer when you walk into the room. They may password protect their laptop or computer to keep out suspicious eyes. Or they stay up to "work" or "play a game" on the computer after you go to bed. Excessive internet usage, especially late at night, is a red flag.

3 - Begin to put distance between you or show a lack of interest in what has been the routine with few, if any, excuses for the change in their behavior.

4 - They suddenly have to work late and have all kinds of new obligations that take them away from home repeatedly or for long periods of time. Or. . . they tell you they are working longer hours and discontinue allowing you to view their paycheck or pay stubs.

5 - If your loved one works with people, such as at a bar or restaurant especially as a waitress they might suddenly tell you not to visit them at work. This usually means they are hiding something at their workplace whether it be with a co-worker or a regular customer such as at a bar.

6 - They suddenly need a cell phone and you are discouraged from ever looking at it or using it. They also may make certain their cell phone or pager cannot be answered by you by hiding it or taking it with them wherever they go. They are secretive about their cell phone bill and pay it themselves when you have always paid the bill in the past.

7 - They arrive home smelling faintly of perfume/cologne or another person's body.

8 - They arrive home and head straight into the shower or bath.

9 - Finding strange phone numbers, receipts or condoms can also be clues.

10 - Suddenly begin to treat you extremely nice; more so than usual.

11 - They begin to make "kinky" requests or suggest wildly erotic play during sex including things you have never done before. They may also show an increased interest in sex or sexual things, including porn.

12 - When they talk to you they treat you abusively or with disdain, disrespect or excessive sarcasm. They may also demonstrate an unexplained aloofness or indifference in the relationship. Or. . . they may begin to find fault in everything you do in an attempt to justify their affair.

13 - Her: When she gets spiffed up and dresses provocative to "go grocery shopping" or to "get her hair done." She may also show up with a sudden change of hair style.

14 - They break their established routine at work and home for no apparent or logical reason.

15 - They become suddenly forgetful and you have to tell her everything several times; their thoughts are obviously elsewhere.

16 - They are always tired or demonstrate a noticeable lack of energy or interest in the relationship.

17 - They begin to intentionally look at or flirt with the opposite sex when in the past, this is something they would not have done.

18 - You notice that they are reluctant to kiss you or accept your affection.

19 - They ignore or criticize your affections and thoughtful ways. Example : "Why are you so luvy duvy? I'm just not like that."

20 - Your phone bill shows an increase in unexplained toll or long distance charges. Often when a partner is acting too close or flirting with a best friend of the opposite sex, you will find their phone number listed excessively.

21 - The passenger seat in the car has been changed and is not in the usual position or the mileage on the car is more than usual. Also increased gas purchases that are inconsistent with the amount of miles on the car.

22 - They begin to keep a change of clothes hidden in the trunk of the car or an unusual amount of clothes changes at the gym.

23 - You notice credit card charges for gifts that you didn't receive.

24 - They begin to make sudden and excessive purchases of clothes or an unexplained change in clothing style. Beginning to purchase sexy underwear or lingerie may be a clue.

25 - You notice an increase in ATM withdrawals. Cheating costs money!

26 - You notice that your partner loses their ability and desire to show the children the attention they need or a lack of desire to do any fix-ups around the house.

27 - You notice an increased attention to losing weight or paying more attention to their appearance.

28 - They begin to volunteer to go to the post office, rushes to check the mail before you do or opens up a new P.O. box perhaps without even telling you.

29 - They get mysterious phone calls or when they hurry to answer the phone, leave the room to talk on the phone and when you ask who called, they say, "No one", "Wrong number", or "Why do you care?"

30 - Simple trips, such as to the grocery store or bank, take hours rather than the time it should take.

31 - Your loved one suddenly deletes all emails from the computer where as they used to accumulate. Same goes for calls on the cell phone or caller ID.

32 - Your loved one seems to pick fights or finds reasons to fight only to stomp out of the house and away from you.

33 - You find a diaphragm, condom, birth control, etc., however, you have had either a vasectomy or she has had a tubal ligation.

Answer 2

Abrupy change in behavior, completely new wardrobe, change in type of perfume, canceling plans often, working late often, becoming more secretive (volunteering less information about how his/her day went among other things).

These are not always true to every person, so do not think that just because a person is wearing a new scent they are cheating. Rather look for multiple changes and if you find any panties/boxers that do not belong to you or him/her it is time to leave

Answer 3

less communication and less connection between you two. meaning you don't feel the way you two do when you talk or when you hang out together

Answer 4

men waiting for her in the parlour

Answer 5

just straight up ask her.. some ppl are better at lieing then others.

Answer 6

you can just tell and she cant look you in the eye when you confront her about it