I was with a man for about eight months... I needed a break .. and he understood. I have been wanting to get back with him for some time now.. we see each other at out kids sports and talk on the phone from time to time. When he sees me he comes up to me and talks normally. He seems like he wants to talk to me and now after telling him that I love him last week.. he still comes to me and talks and its really confusing me. He knows how I feel about him. So why doesnt he want more... Is he thinking about it.. going slow.. what???
2007-03-27 01:53:25 · 7 answers · asked by sassy 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
He has no-one else for all the assholes that are being smart asses.
2007-03-27 02:15:57 · update #1
Frankly i dont think men really know what they want.
Just keep the relationship going as it is, friendship is always a good thing.
If he wants more to the relationship he will make it known, where theres a will theres always a way. The ball is in his court, i wouldnt pursue it
2007-03-27 01:59:26 · answer #1 · answered by romerelax 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Did you explicitly say you wanted to start things up again? I don't think he's going to make a move to get back together after you backed out on him. He might know that you love him but not be sure you want to get back together. He's either waiting for you to tell him how you feel or he isn't interested in a relationship anymore because you seem unstable. I think he's enjoying knowing you want him and don't have him. Don't play his game.
2007-03-27 09:16:37 · answer #2 · answered by SomeGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
...I'd be confused simply because you seem so confused too hun! Why don't you just sit down with this hunk and tell him how you really honestly feel now. There's no guarantee he's gonna accept your bait honey...but at least you'll have a pretty good reference and where you stand with this hunky individual otherwise. I always say you have to ask for what you want darling....otherwise expect to get what you get! Cool?
2007-03-27 09:02:13 · answer #3 · answered by scott s 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
did you ever think that while you were on your brake from him he may have found someone else or even gotten over you.you can not say that you want a brake and not expect that something may go wrong with your plain.
2007-03-27 09:05:14 · answer #4 · answered by Sonya K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he might be wanting to take things slow, cuz you did want a break from him...just wait maybe even talk to him about it and see what happens.
good luck
2007-03-27 08:59:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he wants to go slow..but i think you should ask him about his feelings for you
2007-03-27 08:58:28 · answer #6 · answered by nap11t 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your affair is over. He's staying with his wife.
2007-03-27 09:13:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋