I been with this guy for 6 years and lately he's been going out every weekend he went out friday got home at 6am sat same and Sun he went to Spring Bling and photographed and took videos of all these girls the thing is that we have a 4yr old son together and it really hurts when he does these things to me he never listens or cares to what I have to say what should I do I Love him to death and I want to get him out of my heart I cant take it anymore??
2007-03-27 01:52:53 · 7 answers · asked by Brenda A 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
don't bug him.try and find out what is the reason to loose interest in you.if you can't wait for some more time.may be a common friend can give some advise.don't break away trust in god.everything will be fine.goodluck.
2007-03-27 02:04:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats really sad..
he sounds like the biggest toss and he doesn't appreciate you at all. if you didn't have the son i'd suggest you leave but i guess try to make it work for your baby's sake. i'm really sorry to hear you go through all of that and it breaks my heart coz no one should have to go through what you are atm. its unfair on you. are you guys a young couple ? early - mid twenties ? maybe he just misses going out with the guys and doing single, non dad stuf for a while.. give him a break and see what happens. I guess talking to him about it wouldn't work if you say he doesn't listen or care but maybe if you and the baby moved out like for a little while, see what he does.. if he cares or not because it is a big thing if his son and wife leave.. all the best.. i hope things work out xOx
2007-03-27 09:22:18 · answer #2 · answered by apple 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi, if he doesn't care about you why are you still with him? I bet he is out and about enjoying everything and your just sitting at home wondering what he's doing. You must love him but your selling yourself so short come on now, you need to let him go, it is going to hurt but your going to lose your whole self if you keep staying with him.
Get away from him while your still young otherwise it's going to ruin the rest of your life.
That's just a suggestion.
Chow.
2007-03-27 09:00:53 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not want to sound like this is a trivial thing. I know it hurts. This sounds like the 7 year itch. My suggestions is to either be there and love him and accept him for who he is or to leave the relationship. I would not try to confront him at this point as you may not like what you hear. Give him some space.
2007-03-27 09:01:13 · answer #4 · answered by elphi88 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get rid darling, yeah it will be hard i admit that but it all comesout happy in the end. u dont need that you and your child need love and support not a man who f***s off at all hours and comes back with other girls on video that is not love, u can do better with out xx good luck xx
2007-03-27 08:56:50 · answer #5 · answered by Hayli P 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't take it anymore, you should just leave. Don't be dependent on this guy cuz he's obviously not good for you. It'll be hard, but you're better off doing it on your own because it seems like it's harder if you're with him.
2007-03-27 08:59:57 · answer #6 · answered by SlamDUNK 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that man is irresponsible, get him into therapy , he seriously needs to be straighten up , for the sake of a loving wife and young child.
2007-03-27 09:27:18 · answer #7 · answered by Alpha 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋